Showing posts with label Motivational Monday. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Motivational Monday. Show all posts

January 11, 2021

Motivational Monday #141


I'm excited to share a couple of stories for Motivational Monday today! It's been a long time. I only have two, but I feel like sharing a couple of longer stories might be even better than several shorter ones. Remember, though, I can only post Motivational Monday stories if you submit them! (See bottom of post for how to do that.)



ERIN

Erin at the top of Mt. Whitney, elevation of 14,505 feet! Taken 3 years ago.


"My triumph is that I have walked 5,000+ steps each day for the past week--6 weeks after having an artificial disc replacement at one level in my lower spine, and a fusion at the level below that. It was a major surgery in many ways (I have a 9 inch scar diagonally across my stomach because they go through the abdomen to reach the spine). I am only 42 and I’m so thrilled to have some mobility again!

Back story - I was an extremely active person in my 20s and much of my 30s--teaching aerobics and spinning classes, weight lifting, running races, climbing mountains and traveling the world--until back pain started slowing me down around age 38. I treated it conservatively with chiropractor (worthless) and yoga (probably made it worse).

Spine surgeons told me to deal with it as my “new normal”, which I did until I truly could hardly function without extreme pain. Everything except stationary bicycling hurt. I could push through many things but constantly had pain. I started seeking a real diagnosis.

It turns out that I had two crushed discs in my lower back and my vertebrae were scraping against each other (yep, painful). I had 10 smaller back procedures (injections, nerve ablations, etc) over the past year (trying to avoid the big surgery). I can’t believe I waited to do this- I feel soooo much better already and I’m only 6 weeks out (recovery can take a year).

You don’t realize how lucky you are to be active until you can’t be. I’m so excited to have less pain! Moral of the story for me is that there’s no reason to suffer- seek a diagnosis and get it treated."

-Erin



JEN


"The year 2020 was the year that did not end the way anyone expected at the beginning! I started the year out by planning to beat my previous year’s running mileage goal. I had run 524 miles in 2012--a year that I'd run 3 half marathons.

I originally had plans for distance races in 2020; I was considering half marathons and/or a Ragnar--a relay race where your team covers 200 miles and each person covers 16 or so miles over three runs. The pandemic changed my plans quite a bit!

I wound up participating in a few virtual 5Ks but nothing more. I ultimately decided to shoot for 600 miles for the year, thinking 50 miles per month. That did not happen each month--I got burned out in July and only ran 4 times that month!

Reading Katie’s blog has turned me onto MAF running, where you run at an easy heart rate. I think it has helped me a lot. I suffered a variety of running injuries in the past but running easy has been keeping injuries at bay. I have primarily run shorter distances and run more frequently. I surpassed 524 miles in early November so it was a great feeling to meet my original goal with weeks to spare!

I am not sure what’s in store for 2021.  For now, I plan to stick with my running, and I hope to add in some speed work. I will also work on streaks with my Apple Watch activity rings."
 
-Jen



A huge congrats to Erin and Jen! I can totally empathize with Erin's back pain (although mine clearly isn't as severe). It's super frustrating to have pain and no answers! And I knew Jen was aiming for this goal of 600 miles, so I was thrilled when I saw that she did it. A fellow Michigander, Jen has been a reader for years--and I was lucky enough to meet up with her last year!

I LOVE to read "yay me!" stories for Motivational Monday--remember, you can shamelessly brag about anything you've accomplished. I want to keep posting these, but I need submissions. So, please send them--brag away.

To submit an accomplishment, just send your story and a photo or two to: Katie (at) runsforcookies (dot) com. Motivate us! :)

January 04, 2021

Motivational Monday: We Lost 100+ Pounds!

This is actually a repost from 2015. It's been a long time since then and I thought now, being the first Monday of the new year, would be a great time to share it again. This post is about several people who lost 100+ pounds--their before and after photos and their best tips and advice for losing the pounds. I find it super motivating (not to confuse motivation with determination!) and I'm sure you will, too.



I have a VERY special Motivational Monday to share today! Since this is the 100th Motivational Monday post, I thought it would be so fun to share photos and tips from several people who have lost 100+ pounds. I'm in the 100+ club myself, but even I learned some great info from reading what these inspiring people had to say!


While I wish I could share each of their entire stories, that would be extremely lengthy; so I decided on a Q&A type format. I gave each of them a list of questions, and let them answer as many or as few as they wanted, and I'm posting the most valuable and unique answers here.

Be prepared for some serious inspiration!!


AMANDA
Age: 32
Occupation: Social Media Coordinator
Starting weight: 293
Pounds Lost: 126
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 6 months


How did you lose the weight? I tracked calories with the Lose It! app and started a couch to 5K app in March 2014, which sparked my love for running.

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? The first few months were the hardest because I was cutting calories and getting more exercise but wasn't seeing results right away. I wanted instant gratification! I read motivating weight loss posts that reminded me that I would see results eventually and that I had to be patient.

What was the most surprising/helpful thing you learned about yourself while losing weight? Running is fun and therapeutic! I used to hate it, but now I crave running and enjoy the time to myself to just think and focus on everything in my life.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Make it a lifestyle change! Find healthy foods you love so it doesn't feel like a diet that burdens you. Find an activity you love to do so you don't dread/avoid exercise.


AMY
Age: 37
Occupation: Stay-At-Home Mom
Starting weight: 270
Pounds Lost: 135
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 6 months


How did you lose the weight? I joined a 12 week weight loss competition at my gym (3 times in a row, as they do it spring and fall). The first time, I won third place; and the last two times, I won first place! The competition provided challenges to compete in, and also involved lots of bootcamps, classes, and cardio, as well as information sessions on nutrition. They made it fun, and I guess I am a bit competitive :-)

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? Starting the change and being totally out of my comfort zone about trying new things and new classes. I used to watch the classes and finally just had to push myself to try them. The more you go, the more fun it gets; and I discovered that nobody really cares what I’m doing, because they are all worried about what they are doing :-)

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Don’t let one bad day discourage you; if you mess up, pick yourself up, try to stop beating yourself up over it, and move on. Baby steps--it all happens little by little, not overnight.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Everyone is different, but for me (still being new to this), I weigh myself every morning. I try to stay in a five-pound range, and if I see that number going slightly up for a few days then I know I need to change something up. I also find honestly writing down what I eat (yes, even that cheat snack) helps me stay on track.


CATHERINE
Age: 38
Occupation: Marketing Manager
Starting weight: 282
Pounds Lost: 110
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 10 months


How did you lose the weight? I used Medifast to take off the majority of the weight, and did the last ten pounds or so on Weight Watchers.  After I lost most of the weight, I started a 5k training program, and now I run/work out regularly and follow Weight Watchers to maintain my weight.

How do you keep going when you are lacking motivation and feel yourself falling back into old habits? I try to remind myself of how much better I feel now, and how much I am able to do that I couldn't at my heaviest.  I couldn't even get through the first day of C25K before, and I recently completed my first half marathon.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Keep trying, and don't give up. I tried to lose weight dozens of times (and with multiple different programs) and never lost more than 40 pounds, which I always gained back. Even if you stop and start 100 times, just keep going.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Tracking everything I eat (and weighing and measuring) is extremely helpful. I also have a plan for what I'm going to eat every day and when I'm going to exercise -  putting it down on paper helps me stay on track and not fall back into bad habits.


CHRISTINE
Age: 44
Occupation: Part Time Special Education Teacher / Part Time Travel Agent
Starting weight: 350+
Pounds Lost: 110
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 14 years
Blog: Magical Adventures Await


How did you lose the weight? I lost my weight using Weight Watchers.  At first, I didn't exercise; but then I added short workout videos at home, and then gradually started working out in the gym.

How do you keep going when you are lacking motivation and feel yourself falling back into old habits?  I got into running.  I am still really slow and I use a combination of running and walking, but having a race on my schedule with a goal to look forward to keeps me motivated.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight?  Don't try to make huge changes all at once.  Start with small steps.  Even if you are going to watch your diet every other day, it is a start; and then you won't feel like you are deprived.  You can gradually work up to a healthy meal plan daily, with some planned indulgences.

What do you wish your “heavier self” had known?  That losing weight and getting active was possible.  I was overweight for the first 31 years of my life. I just never thought anything else was possible.

It is never too late to start.  I am 44, still working on losing weight and I am training for my first full marathon!  Anything is possible!


CLIFF (Jodi's husband - her story is further down)
Age: 31
Occupation: Database Administrator
Starting weight: 660
Pounds Lost: 315
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 5 years


How did you lose the weight? More than anything, it was a mental change of making up my mind to be consistent and to not give up. Physically, I started by cutting out things that I knew were bad for me that I felt like I could live without (for me, soda was the first thing), and limiting my calorie intake according to a formula I found online and later MyFitnessPal. I then began working out regularly (1-2 days a week at first, then 3, now I’m up to 5).

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? Overcoming my lifelong conditioning of eating poorly was the hardest part, by far. During childhood, I had formed horrible habits and was 450+lbs by the time I left high school. Overcoming it was a process of altering habits gradually; changing the kinds of foods I ate over time so it didn’t feel like I was having to get rid of all food that I enjoyed (read: was addicted to) all at once, and lowering my food intake in stages rather than trying to go ‘cold turkey’ as I had tried in the past.

How do you keep going when you are lacking motivation and feel yourself falling back into old habits? My wife helps me a lot. We’ve been very fortunate in having each other for support. If I feel like I’m slipping she’ll generally be on point and vice-versa. In a ‘long term’ sense, I also focus a lot on trying to lengthen my life as to spend as much time with her as possible, which is a big motivator. Also--old pictures. Nothing makes you remember what life was like 300 pounds ago, and how you never want to go back, like old pictures.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Slipping ‘off the bandwagon’ isn’t a reason to give up. Don’t expect yourself to be perfect. You won’t be. Instead of looking at one night of bad eating (or whatever you did) as ‘failure’ look at it as a bump in the road on a long journey. Don’t use it as an excuse to break down and stop, use it as a reason to work harder tomorrow.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Don’t approach weight loss as if it’s a short term project that you can complete in a year or two and then you can ‘go back to normal’. Instead you have to create a new normal for yourself. If you want to keep weight off you need to come to a mental understanding that living healthy isn’t something you’ll be able to stop doing if you want to keep it off. It’s not a situation where you lose 50 pounds, or 100 pounds, or whatever your desired number is, and you can just go back to how things were that made you unhealthy in the first place.


DEB
Age: 40
Occupation: Elementary Music Teacher
Starting weight: 315
Pounds Lost: 142
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 10 months


How did you lose the weight? I don't restrict any food groups (but some foods I choose not to have around much because of binge potential). I track food on MyFitnessPal, and found that I rather enjoy running--for how it makes me feel, and the additional calories that help me be satisfied and not "cheated".

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? The hardest part for me is the constant mindfulness that is required; sometimes I feel like it takes up too much of the space in my brain.  I still struggle with that.  Also, I struggle with the "all or nothing" mindset... sometimes in ridiculous ways. For example, rather than buckle down on the calories on days I don't earn extras from exercising, it is a battle to not just say, "Well, I already didn't exercise, may as well eat a second burger", or whatever is tempting that day. I know what I need to do and how to do it, but I wish I didn't STILL have this internal struggle from time to time.

What was the most surprising/helpful thing you learned about yourself while losing weight? I can talk myself into or out of just about anything. Sometimes I just forget that.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? You deserve to be healthy, comfortable in your own skin, and able to enjoy life feeling good. Making healthy, reasonable, and responsible food choices while allowing yourself things you enjoy, and staying physically active can make this a reality.

What do you wish your “heavier self” had known? After failed weight loss attempt after failed weight loss attempt, I had myself convinced that (as ridiculous as it sounds) 300+ pounds was my body's "natural" weight--it was where my body wanted to be. Now, I look at those pictures and feel really disconnected from that. It was, of course, an excuse to not make the changes that my body really craved. Now, though I am still on the large side, I look at those pictures and can't imagine that I could ever think that I was destined to be like that.  I wish my heavier self had known that it was okay to expect that life could be better and that I COULD do something about it; it just takes patience, self-forgiveness, and stubbornness.


ELICIA
Age: 29
Occupation: Stay at home Mom
Starting weight: 265
Pounds Lost: 120
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 3 years
Blog: Elicia's SparkPeople Blog


How did you lose the weight? I used SparkPeople.com, tracked my calories, and exercised 4-5 times per week.

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? The hardest part for me was changing my eating habits. Eating smaller portions, eating different foods, and tracking everything. I made small goals and made meal plans before grocery shopping. If I didn’t have it in the house, I didn’t eat it!

What was the most surprising/helpful thing you learned about yourself while losing weight? Before I lost weight, I assumed I was just a big boned person. However, as I was losing I kept having to buy smaller and smaller clothes. At my goal weight of 140 pounds, I was a size 2! I couldn’t believe it! I was at the top of the healthy BMI range and was a size 2.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Make small goals. I initially made a goal to lose 10 pounds. I hit that goal, so I kept making small goals until I reached my ultimate goal weight. I also recommend tracking everything that you eat. Even if you are having a bad day!


EMILY
Age: 23
Occupation: Stay-At-Home Mom
Pounds Lost: 105
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 5 years


How did you lose the weight? I hired a personal trainer to teach me how to exercise and eat properly. Then I found a passion for learning about nutrition, and I continued on my own by eating right and exercising (including running, of course)!

What was the most surprising/helpful thing you learned about yourself while losing weight? I learned that I love to cook! Because I began losing weight as a teenager, I’d never really cooked for myself before. I had to take the opportunity to learn new recipes and different ways to incorporate new healthy foods; turned out I really enjoyed it!

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Your mind is powerful. If you believe you’re going to fail, your actions will follow your thoughts. Visualizing myself at my goal weight was a trick I used that really worked and got me through many workouts.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Don’t expect to be perfect—you’re going to gain weight once in a while. People who have always been a healthy weight fluctuate too! Don’t throw an entire day, week, or month away because you overindulged for one meal.


JENNIFER
Age: 35
Occupation: Stay-at-Home Mom
Starting weight: 332
Pounds Lost: 141
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 2 years


How did you lose the weight? I always answer this question by saying "just how the doctors tell you to do it... be careful about what you eat and MOVE!"  I started out walking and then, slowly, running; all while watching what I ate. I never followed a specific plan or cut anything completely from my diet.

What was the most surprising/helpful thing you learned about yourself while losing weight? Probably the most surprising thing that I learned about myself is that I'm a runner... and I just ran my first half marathon!  If someone had told me three years ago, after the birth of my fourth child, that I would run a half-marathon three years later, I would have laughed in their face. I learned that I am capable of more than I could have ever imagined!

How do you keep going when you are lacking motivation and feel yourself falling back into old habits? I think about my husband and four little ones. My momma just passed away in July, at 57 years old, after a long struggle with diabetes, kidney failure, and many other complications.  I saw what a struggle the last 10 years of her life was like... I know what if felt like to watch her go through it. I know what it feels like to no longer have her here to see, to talk with, to get advice from.  I don't want my kids or husband to go through the same. That is motivation enough.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Keep at it. Try again. YOU CAN DO IT!  I tried for years before something finally clicked.  Start simple.  I didn't start out attempting to lose weight... so my focus wasn't on the scale. I just started walking several times a week, and after a month or two, I realized that I had lost weight. Worry less about the number on the scale and more about trying to make small changes to improve your health.


JESSICA
Age: 36
Starting weight: 284
Pounds Lost: 110
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 1.5 years
Blog: A Little More Each Day


How did you lose the weight? I joined Weight Watchers in July 2012 the day after my birthday. I tracked points (not simply filling) and got to goal in a year, with running in the mix too.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? If you aren't willing to do it every day for the rest of your life (whether it is a type of exercise or a food you're eating/not eating or an amount you're eating or a medication you're taking), don't rely on it as a strategy to lose weight or you'll just regain it when you stop doing that thing. Also, give yourself credit for the things you're doing well. On days the scale isn't moving, you're still eating healthier and moving more and that has benefits beyond the scale.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Find a way to hold yourself accountable, whether it is regular weigh-ins, or a support group, or a refusal to buy new pants (I do all 3). Also, make a list of why you lost weight and why you want to maintain that loss and review it often! I pull mine out when I smell fresh chocolate chip cookies. :)

What do you wish your “heavier self” had known? I wish she'd known that she wasn't unhappy because she was overweight - she was just unhappy and needed to work on believing in herself. Running has done far more for my sense of self than losing weight ever did, so I would definitely like to go back and give my 250 pound self who started running a super high five!!


JODI (Cliff's wife - his story is above)
Age: 32
Occupation: Healthcare Auditor
Starting weight: 380
Pounds Lost: 181
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 2 years
Blog: House Bailey


How did you lose the weight? I started working out at least 3 days a week and using My Fitness Pal. I started on a recumbent bike, then elliptical, and now I'm running.

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that?  I actually had two giant obstacles in my way at first.  One was the complete dislike of most fruits and vegetables; and the second was being a sedentary, heavy smoker since the age of about 13. I quit (officially) smoking when I started running (about 18 months ago) and through a lot of trial and error, have taken baby-steps to eating (and liking!) lots of fruits and veggies. Slowly introducing new foods and exercise was definitely the key.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Read Katie’s blog! Her mantra of not changing anything that you can’t stick with forever was a very eye-opening thorough process for me.  I contribute so much of my success to her story and ideologies about the mental and physical struggle of losing (and maintaining) 100+ pounds lost.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? I keep a control center on my fridge, complete with pictures of what we used to look like and how we have changed over the years.  We keep a spreadsheet there as well and weigh in every Wednesday and keep a workout schedule that we fill out each month.  It’s a constant reminder to stay the course.


JULIE
Age: 49
Occupation: Third-Grade Teacher
Starting weight: 240
Pounds Lost: 100
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 15 months


How did you lose the weight? I lost the weight by running and following Weight Watchers.

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? It was all equally hard.  Staying motivated has always been an issue for me.  I stayed motivated by finding blogs to follow on the Weight Watchers site, and elsewhere on the internet, of people who lost weight by running and/or following Weight Watchers.

What was the most surprising/helpful thing you learned about yourself while losing weight? I am goal-oriented. I need to have a goal, like a race, to keep me motivated, otherwise I get lazy.

How do you keep going when you are lacking motivation and feel yourself falling back into old habits? I still go to Weight Watcher's meetings every Saturday. That really helps me.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Give yourself time. Think about how you want to look a year from now, and think about what you are doing NOW to make that happen.

What do you wish your “heavier self” had known? I wish I had known how happy I would be at a normal size. I wish I had known that running, and other forms of exercise, really are the best therapy.  I wish I had known that endorphins make you feel great!  I wish I had known that the changes in your body that consistent exercise makes is like magic!


KAREN
Age: 29
Occupation: Stay-at-Home Mom
Starting weight: 274lbs
Pounds Lost: 117
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 7 months


How did you lose the weight? I signed up with MyFitnessPal and started counting calories. I dabble with paleo and clean eating, but I mostly just eat what I want within my calories. Counting calories opened my eyes to the nutritional value of a lot of junk foods and I stopped eating a lot of those things! I started exercising and running within this past year and that has helped shed the weight a lot faster coupled with my healthy diet.

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? The hardest part was thinking about how much work I was putting in with eating correctly and exercising so much and still having so much weight to lose. When you're in the middle of losing an amount of weight like 100lbs it can mess with your mind. When you feel awesome that you've already worked so hard to lose a number like 50lbs and then realize you have another 50 or more to go, it can defeat you if you let it.

What was the most surprising/helpful thing you learned about yourself while losing weight? Everything!! I've never been a fan of exercising, and I especially hated running pretty much my whole life. Who knew I could be a success story and willingly train for a half marathon? I didn't know I could be this person, and I really like her!

How do you keep going when you are lacking motivation and feel yourself falling back into old habits? This happens to me a lot, and I'm so fortunate that I really love running because when my eating slips up those miles are the only things that help me keep going! It's hard, but you just have to take it one day at a time, throw the junk out, fight those cravings with tears and tantrums and get back into it again.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Look at before pictures!! Remember the who and the why that you're doing this for, remember how you felt then and how good you feel now. And running helps too!


KELLY
Age: 27
Occupation: Administrative Assistant
Starting weight: 274
Pounds Lost: 115
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 3 years


How did you lose the weight? Weight Watchers - full lifestyle change and hard exercise program.

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? Feeing like I couldn't eat what I want when I wanted. I overcame it by still allowing treats, but planning for them instead.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? If you are tired of starting over again and again, then don't quit.

What do you wish your “heavier self” had known? How awesome life is when you are a normal healthy weight! The things you can do and places you can go are SO much bigger.

Losing the weight was the best thing I could have ever done for myself. Now I get to be a great role model of a healthy lifestyle for my daughter so she will not have to go through what I went through. What an amazing gift to give her!!!


LINDSAY
Age: 35
Occupation: Police Dispatcher
Starting weight: 304
Pounds Lost: 130 pounds initially, and five years later I am maintaining 110 pounds lost.
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 6 years
Blog: Lindsay is a Lifetime Member


How did you lose the weight? Weight Watchers helped me to lose the weight and continues to help me to maintain the weight lost.

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? The hardest part was making the change in the beginning.  I was living the single life and eating out all the time.  It was a huge adjustment, so I made the Weight Watcher plan fit MY life.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Stay connected to a support system.  Meetings, on-line message boards, walking buddies, family and friends, whomever it is... stay connected. When somebody stops communicating that means they need some extra support.

What do you wish your “heavier self” had known? I wish my heavier self knew that she was beautiful.  I always knew I was an awesome person on the inside, and after losing my weight, I feel the outside now matches the inside.  Regardless of the packaging on the outside, I was, and will always be, a beautiful person.


NICK
Age: 30
Occupation: Technical Operations Manager for Standing Cloud, an AppDirect Company
Starting weight: 317
Pounds Lost: 120
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 2 years


How did you lose the weight? The company I work for moved to an office with showers and I started running before work with friends / co-workers

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? Winter; I hate running on the treadmill, I feel like a hamster :-). I started playing lots of indoor sand volleyball instead (something I really enjoy).

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Find ways to work out that you really enjoy so that it's something you look forward to rather than having it as a chore. Find healthy things to eat that you don't have to gag down.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Same as above; you need to find ways to eat and exercise that are sustainable.


PAM
Age: 64
Occupation: Retired Secretary
Starting weight: 328
Pounds Lost: 170 lbs.
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 4 years
Blog: Pam's SparkPeople Blog


How did you lose the weight? I simply started eating healthier, fruits, veggies, using better cooking methods, not so much frying and breading! I quit snacking all the time, and started walking. I started slow, both in cutting back on my eating and my walking, but as the pounds dropped, I got more enthusiastic, and tried harder. I walked further and ate healthier!

How do you keep going when you are lacking motivation and feel yourself falling back into old habits? This is tough. I keep a "before" picture on my fridge and I never forget all the humiliation that went along with being morbidly obese. I also try to remember all that I have gained  in my life by losing the weight--I can walk anywhere, and fit in chairs, airline seats, booths in restaurants, I went from taking five prescriptions for high blood pressure to needing no prescription drugs at all! I got my health and freedom back and I refuse to give it up!

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Just remember: You have the power. You are in control of the choices you make. It feels so good when you make good lifestyle choices. The shame and embarrassment I felt over what I had done to myself is gone.

Keeping the weight off is a never-ending battle for me, but I try to stay determined, because going back to that sad, overweight, unhealthy woman I was for so many years is just not an option anymore. My husband is fighting Stage 4 Cancer, which will ultimately be terminal, and that gives me added motivation. I need to stay healthy and strong in order to take care of him, just as he took care of me for our whole married life.


SARAH
Age: 35
Occupation: Stay-At-Home Mom in Nairobi, Kenya
Starting weight: 265
Pounds Lost: 101
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 1 month
Blog: One Mama Gets Fit


How did you lose the weight?  I lost the weight by eating clean (whole, real foods) and working out six days a week.  All that old fashioned advice - it actually works!

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? Living overseas and not having access to modern equipment/classes/gyms (or being able to just go out for a run because of safety concerns) and all the fancy health food; and on top of that, having young children (especially one who wakes multiple times at night) - the hardest part has been keeping my mental focus on the goal (even when very sleep-deprived).

To overcome this, I have posted motivational statements and sweet notes from friends around the house and doing my best to bring as much newness and spice to my workouts so that they don't get old.  A bonus? Having a husband that keeps me on my toes and lovingly encourages me every day that I can do this!

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Give grace to yourself.  We're not perfect and losing weight won't be perfect.  When you make a decision that you're not terribly proud of, give yourself grace and then try to do the next best thing.


TAMARA
Age: 41
Occupation: Wife, Mom, and Second-Grade Teacher
Starting weight: 340
Pounds Lost: 138
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 2 years
Blog: Tamara Shazam


How did you lose the weight? I realized that the work was going to be hard and it was entirely up to me to get it done. I couldn't rely on a feeling, mood, external motivation or anything consistently besides my own will and determination, so I started running, rethinking my food intake and forced myself to be really honest about everything I ate, thought, and did.

What was the most surprising/helpful thing you learned about yourself while losing weight? Even though in 2014 my goal was to lose weight, I actually unintentionally maintained my weight.  What I learned, quite by accident, was that maintenance will look nothing like going back to my old habits; maintenance takes just about as much work and focus as losing weight does. This is truly a lifelong nutrition and exercise shift, and I can't stop the work when I hit my goal.

How do you keep going when you are lacking motivation and feel yourself falling back into old habits? My body project was chugging along slowly when a friend suggested that I start reading Runs for Cookies. It was there that I read about the significant trifecta between me, motivation and determination. Katie wrote about how my determination allows me to take an active roll in my weight loss, while waiting for motivators (like I had been doing), was taking a more passive route.

It was a life-changing moment for me, and from then on I've relied on my determination, primarily, to move forward, and use the pride I know I will feel when I meet my goal as motivation.  I have used physical tokens as rewards for when I meet a goal, but I find that they really aren't as motivating as the accomplishment itself in the end. I also keep a website so that I have a public forum from which to share my story.  Holding myself accountable publicly is HUGE motivation!!!

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? You have to be really honest with yourself.  That may sound easy and you may think that you are in your own head so that's impossible to be anything but honest, but I spent years telling myself that I was just was a certain way and had medical challenges that prevented me from being successful. Those were just lies I told myself to give the excuse to stay unhealthy, because my real truth was that I was crazy lazy when it came to my health in general.

What do you wish your “heavier self” had known? With the exception of a brief year at the end of high school, I have always been heavy and didn't know any other way of living life.  I wish I had known how much I was limiting myself.  My world is so much bigger now. Life isn't intimidating anymore.


VALERIE
Age: 31
Occupation: Mental Health Crisis Counselor
Starting weight: 288
Pounds Lost: 129
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 6 months
Blog: Fit2b30


How did you lose the weight? Ate fairly "clean" and in moderation, as well as a combo of exercise--strength training and cardio. I worked out 4-5 times per week when first starting, but now down to 3-4 times per week. I stuck to lean proteins, lots of veggies, fruits and high-quality carbs.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Just start making small changes at first and don't make large goals at the beginning. Start with small goals, and when you hit each one, then you can change them as you go. The more manageable your goals the easier they are to achieve and maintain. Also, you won't become as easily discouraged if you set small, manageable goals.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Put old pictures of yourself up somewhere or on Facebook so you can see how far you have come and what you have achieved. Why would you want to go back to your old self if you were not happy with it?

What do you wish your “heavier self” had known? I wish I had really been aware at the "food" I was eating and how bad it really was for me. The "food" that I was eating was not actually food, it was all processed "frankenfoods" that had absolutely no nutritional value.

It is NOT easy to lose weight, but it is possible! It takes hard work, motivation, determination, as well as heart to achieve your goals. Take it one step at a time and you can achieve it! If I could do it, you can too!



How inspiring are they?! I am so stunned by all of these amazing people. If they gave you a boost of motivation today, please leave them a comment here and let them know!

A huge congrats to everybody on your hard work!!

January 03, 2021

What It's Like To Blog Daily For One Year


On January 1, 2020, I made a goal to post on my blog every single day for a year. In 2019, I'd gotten more and more slack with my posting and I was afraid my blog was just going to sizzle out completely. I didn't want that to happen, so making that goal seemed like a good idea.

I had no idea just how DIFFICULT it was going to be! It sounds so simple... just write a little about my day or use a writing prompt when I wasn't sure what to write. But it was much more complicated than that.

First, 2020 ended up being the wrong year to choose this goal, apparently. With the lockdown, every day started to feel like groundhog day (remember that movie?)--the same thing, day in and day out. You can only write so much about the same thing.

My friend John told me a few months ago that I shouldn't start any of my posts with, "This is boring" or "I don't have anything interesting to say" or something like that, because he found it interesting regardless. So I tried to stop doing that. But I still FELT like it was boring and I was embarrassed posting some things.

We had to cancel our family vacation to San Francisco, which was something I could have written a week's worth of posts about. We weren't able to get together friends or go out together as a family to places like restaurants, the movies, bowling, or things like that. We couldn't even get together friends for bonfires, parties, game nights, etc. So those topics were out.

I wasn't losing any weight (other than when I was doing 75 Hard) so I didn't have anything to write about on the weight loss front. And I was too embarrassed (I still am) to do Wednesday Weigh-Ins.

All things I could have written about.

Instead, I wrote a list of writing prompts--many of them I got from the internet, some I got from John, and some just popped into my head. When I was really stuck for a topic, I would try to pick something from that.

The problem is, a lot of them would leave me feeling very vulnerable. I didn't always want to do "fluff" posts, but I was scared to post deeper feelings as well (I always am). So, I tried to keep a mix of the two. Some fun posts and some serious, vulnerable posts.

I did (and still do) enjoy writing about various projects I've done or am working on (crafts, DIY, etc). I find those interesting without leaving me feeling too vulnerable. They are few and far between, though, so they didn't take up much as far as my posting goes.


Adopting the kittens was great because I was able to write about them sometimes. They've grown so much! They weigh more than Estelle now. (Phoebe is tiny, weighing only seven pounds--but the kittens are 11 pounds.)


Posting about the challenges (summer and fall) was a great opportunity to write frequently. Unfortunately, I didn't follow them and that didn't work out.

Thankfully, I did a HUGE project for four months: completely making over my garage. I did every last bit of it by myself, and I am so so so proud of that. It was a ton of work but I couldn't be happier with out it turned out. I was even able to move my crafting stuff in there with its own little corner and now I don't have to drag it out to the kitchen table whenever I want to sew something.


Because of the daily posting, I had to get creative with different topics. I certainly couldn't post about weight loss or crafting or DIY stuff every single day. I had to do a mishmash of topics. I hoped this wouldn't stop people from reading because of losing interest (not everybody wants to read about particular topics) but in the end, I decided that it's MY blog and I'm not writing it to please other people. It's for me! 

There were a lot--and I mean a LOT--of days where I would stare at my computer at 11:00 PM and not have a single word written. I just couldn't think of what to write! Even looking at my writing prompts didn't help. I'd given myself permission to post just a photo for the day if that's what I needed to do; however, I felt guilty when I didn't at least write a few paragraphs. This year, I'm not going to let that bother me. If I have to post just a photo, I'm going to do so!


What I would REALLY love to do this year is to have certain topics on most days: a recipe on one day, Transformation Tuesday (see below), Weight Loss Wednesday, Friday Night Photos, a summary of the week on the weekend, etc. Maybe Motivational Monday again if I can get people to submit them!

Here is where I need your help to get these started.

Transformation Tuesday - This is all about transformations having to do with any topic at all. It could be a before and after of a haircut, upcycling an article of clothing or piece of furniture, before and after/during weight loss, ingredients turned into a meal, anything DIY, etc. ANYTHING GOES.

All you have to do is send in one before photo and one after photo, plus a paragraph or two explaining what you did. (Even just a sentence is fine if you don't want to write much!). Then you can include your name and where you are from (optional). These posts were very well received but I can't post them if I don't get submissions. So I beg you, please send me some submissions! 

You can send the two photos and the description to my email at: katie (at) runsforcookies (dot) com, using the subject "Transformation Tuesday". Depending on how many I get, I may save it for another week.

Motivational Monday - This series is where you can shamelessly brag about an accomplishment! Whether you run or walk your first 5K race, or you complete the Couch to 5K program, you take a class and learn how to decorate a cake, you lost two pounds that week, you got over a fear of flying, or anything else. When other people (including me) see these things, it's motivating to do something for ourselves! 

My friend Jen hit her mileage goal for the year, so that would be a great one to share. My friend Adam completed 75 Hard and his photos were amazing. My friend Emily took on the project of making a little free library (with my help) and used power tools for the first time.


Those things are motivating! But again, I can't do the series unless people submit photos/stories, big or small. If you think it's boring or trivial, think again! You may really inspire someone to try something new. To submit this, just send a photo or two to compliment your accomplishment, along with an explanation (a sentence, a paragraph, whatever!) to my email: katie (at) runsforcookies (dot) com with the subject line "Motivational Monday". Again, I will post them as I get them, depending on how many. It could be that week or it could be several weeks. But I will post them!

Finally, if you have a story that you'd like to share, I'm always willing to consider guest posts. I'm very selective about these for several reasons, but I'd love to read posts from others. People have amazing stories, even if you may not think yours is interesting. Maybe you are a foster parent and can share what that's like, or maybe you have an unusual job, or maybe you have a child with special needs. Maybe you have a mental illness and want to share about living with that. 

If you'd like to submit a guest post, please email me with your idea (not the whole post) and I'll let you know if I think it will fit in. But don't be shy about it! Reading others' stories is super interesting.

Okay, I think that's about it for this post! Basically, writing daily for a year is hard but rewarding. I'm proud I did it! But it's very hard to come up with ideas sometimes, so I can certainly use your help in these series ideas I have. PLEASE consider sending something in. If you're unsure about it, you can ask my opinion and I'll tell you what I think. And if you want to remain anonymous, that's cool, too. Just let me know.

Happy New Year, everyone! I think that 2021 is looking up already. I've been sticking with my goals/habits (even though it's only day three). It feels good, though. :)  xo

September 07, 2020

The Power of a Determined Mindset

When I saw a video post by my friend Adam on Facebook yesterday, I was completely stunned. Speechless. Just completely in awe.

I've known Adam since high school and we've remained good friends through all these years--he even stood up in my wedding. Lately, we've been talking a lot more. He's been really into challenging himself and he's the one who turned me onto talked me into trying 75 Hard.



He's also the one who told me to read David Goggins' book, 'Can't Hurt Me' (Amazon affiliate link). David Goggins is on this whole other level of toughness--I can't even fathom the amount of discipline that he has developed from years of sheer HARD WORK. And I'm starting to see some of this in Adam. It makes me really excited for him!

He is currently doing 75 Hard, and he's about a week ahead of me (I'm starting Week 8 today). He's made it much more challenging to himself than I have, however. 

To back up, though...

In February, he did the most insane challenge I'd ever heard of up until that point--he did a 4x4x48 challenge (Goggins' idea). That meant to run 4 miles every 4 hours for 48 hours straight. Yes, you read that correctly. Insane! And he did it.

He didn't just do this once; he did it again in June! (And now he wants me to do it with him next month, even if we just walk instead of run...)

Adam bought a used mountain bike from a friend so he could use it to bike to work as well as exercise. On July 28, Adam tried out his new wheels:



Then on August 4th, out what what seems like nowhere, he walked 42 miles in one day!



Adam decided to do a charity event where he would have to cycle 250 miles in September (I'll include the info for that at the end of the post). So, he got started...


I have to do a side note here: This is super ironic and funny. Even through high school, Adam would talk about being strong and always working on being stronger by challenging himself. He later moved into a house that he knew was on Adams St. (coincidental enough) but then realized that it was on the corner of Strong Blvd! So he lived on the corner of Adams-Strong. Crazy, right?! (That's what the hashtag refers to.)

Also, when he mentions a "cookie jar" it's another reference to David Goggins' book. It's a way of tucking away little accomplishments to pull out when you need to feel strong to get through something.

I've saved the most insane accomplishment for last (although I'm sure this will not be *his* last!). He posted this video to Facebook yesterday, leaving me stunned.

(Note: When he mentions a triathlon, he's talking about the cycling portion of an IRONMAN.



Anyway, I hadn't planned to do an entire post about Adam, but I just had to brag about him a little. He's been SO encouraging to me while I do 75 Hard and definitely trying to push me out of my comfort zone. When I was feeling depressed and antisocial in the winter, he kept asking to get together and when we finally did, I felt so much happier.

He's an amazing friend and literally the strongest person I know--his mental determination is approaching David Goggins'. 

I don't usually post links to other people's charities because I get SO many requests to do so. Adam did not ask me to post this, but I'm going to anyways just in case anyone feels like they want to contribute to his cycling goal for September.

It's called the Great Cycle Challenge and it's to fight kids' cancer. Here is a link to Adam's fundraising page.

July 18, 2018

A guest post update from Sarah, who'd lost 101 pounds

You may remember several years ago, when I did my 100th Motivational Monday post--it was a short Q&A with 20 different people who had lost 100+ pounds! Well, it's been a few years now, and I wanted to check in and see how things were going for them.

One of them was Sarah:

Sarah's weight loss transformation

(You can read her original Q&A here)

Sarah has a great update to share! So here it is, in her own words...



Three years ago, when Katie sent out a request for folks to share their stories if you had lost 100+ pounds, I had just hit that mark of losing 100 pounds. I was living in Kenya with my husband and two young children.

After the birth of our second child in Nairobi (just a year prior), something just "snapped" within me and I desired to get healthy. I'd realized that the "snapped" feeling was that I was finally feeling safe and loved. Not like anything was ever not safe or that I wasn't loved--but that I was finally able to breathe and had the space to work on me.

I felt like I could be me. I worked with a long-time friend who is a nutritionist and personal trainer and she taught me to how eat well and work out. I am forever grateful for Stephanie and how she worked with me (virtually) for a year. When I got to see her for the first time since returning from Kenya (131 pounds lighter)--it was all tears.

Sarah and Stephanie

The past three years have been full of adventure and increased learning while maintaining my weight loss. We made the decision to leave Kenya after many years there, and while stateside we got pregnant with our third child.

During that time, I stayed active and maintained a healthy weight during my pregnancy. It was the best pregnancy, and I thoroughly enjoyed "looking pregnant"--unlike my other two. It was nice to sport a cute "baby bump"!

Sarah while pregnant

Nine weeks after my daughter was born, we moved our family to Southeast Asia. Even with another new adventure and transition, this healthy lifestyle had already been deeply rooted in me and there was nothing to change it. It's in my bones now.

After only seven months in Southeast Asia, we moved back to the States. We have been here for a year now and are enjoying our community and life here very much. Life is just sweet.

The process of becoming healthy has been liberating for me.  In some ways, I feel like I truly came alive for the first time three years ago.

I've learned that eating well is a lifestyle. Some days, you just need something sweet. And some days, your body is craving more veggies. I've learned to listen to my body. Give it good stuff.

I adore cooking. I could spend a great portion of my day researching recipes and tweaking them to make them healthy and cooking.

For the past three years, I've been learning what I love to do for exercise and staying active. I do love a good sweat from a run, but I enjoy weights and strength exercises so much more. There's a thrill from being able to lift heavy.

Above all this, what makes my heart happy is being able to play and be active with my family. Run with my kids. Go bike riding. Rock climb. Not be scared to go jump with them on the trampoline for fear that it might break. Go down waterslides without worrying what the weight limit might be.

Sarah rock climbing

So many of those types of worries, sadnesses, and fears are removed.

I'm not sure what the next three years will hold. I have so much loose skin from weight loss. I keep wondering if I should have it removed or just live with it, like a "badge of honor" of sorts.

Ideas of how can I challenge myself? Any goals I want to have before I turn 40? Those things I am thinking through. But, really, I'm just enjoying right now and the fact that all this is a gift from God--it's just been such a sweet gift.

Sarah and her husband


March 20, 2017

Motivational Monday #140

Happy Motivational Monday, Friends! I hope everyone had a fantastic weekend. My weekend went by crazy fast--I'm just not feeling ready for the busy week ahead ;)


Anyway, I have a couple of fun stories to share with you for Motivational Monday. Hope you enjoy!



I'm always happy when I hear from a male reader, because I don't seem to have very many of them ;) This is Dave. He completed his very first half-marathon yesterday--on his 56th birthday! He works crazy hours, and considering the weather and the fact that this was his first half-marathon, he is thrilled with his finish time of 2:04:42. To round off his exciting week of "firsts", on Friday, Dave is actually going to be meeting his biological sister for the first time! They talked for the first time last month, and now he is looking forward to seeing her in person. What a fun week! (Dave, I'll be thinking of you Friday--I hope you'll let us know how the reunion goes!)



This is Megan (on the left). She admits that she was never an athletic child, and she's been self-conscious of her body for as long as she can remember. She even remembers having to run the mile in gym class (don't we all have that awful memory? Haha!) and she was the last one to finish. The boy that finished first ran back to Megan and completed her last lap with her so she wasn't doing it alone. At 26 years old, she still says she is not "athletic", but she wanted to give running a try again. She tried Couch to 5K before, but always found it too difficult--until she learned to slow her running pace. She slowed down and found she could run almost a full mile--and last Sunday, Megan and her wife completed their first 5K race! They even ran the entire race without stopping. Megan has a goal to run a marathon one day, and checking this 5K off the list was a big step in that direction :)  (A big congrats to you, Megan! And to your wife as well.)  (Megan blogs at Meg on a Mission)




As for myself, I have been lacking the motivation to exercise. When I stopped running a few weeks ago (I'm just taking a break, not quitting altogether), I had every intention of doing other things to stay active. But this weather has been so awful in Michigan this month that I just haven't made myself exercise. Occasionally, I feel the urge to go for a run; but usually, when I feel that urge, the weather stops me. I think I'm going to give myself the rest of this month to slack off a bit, but then on April 1st, I'll start with a schedule.

I loved the idea that a few readers suggested about having a list of activities, and choosing from the list based on how I feel that day. I will make a generic exercise schedule, so that I am sure to get in a good amount of exercise, but I won't restrict myself to particular exercises. My whole goal is to be happy and healthy, so I don't really mind if my exercise comes from running, or a bike ride, or just a long stroll in the park.

Interestingly, though, I don't feel bad about taking a break right now. My eating has been very good (I haven't binged in 25 days (maybe more, but that's when I started counting). The weight is coming off, but I am not in a big hurry as far as that goes. I've also been staying very busy every day, so it's not like I'm sitting around doing nothing instead of exercising. I think this break has actually done me some good!

I think my new antidepressant is doing its job, too. I still have good days and bad days, but the bad days are getting fewer and further between, and not as intense. I've just been feeling more focused on a day to day basis, which is nice. Even though I know that I'm not going to hit my 10,000+ steps per day goal for March (I need to choose a month with better weather and try again), I decided to go ahead and order the Brooklinen sheets I wanted. After the last nine months of struggling with deep depression, I thought a set of cozy sheets would be a great way to do something nice for myself. (And the timing is perfect, because we are getting our bedroom carpet installed soon).

The sheets are SO comfortable!


Anyway, my life seems to be moving in the right direction now, and I'm just hoping it continues that way. Hopefully April will bring better weather, too, so I can start riding my bike! I've been looking forward to that :)


If you would like to share a successful moment on Motivational Monday, you can read how to submit your story here. I will post them on Mondays as I get them (I like to wait until I have 2-3 before posting). Thanks to Dave and Megan for sharing their accomplishments with us this week!

March 13, 2017

Motivational Monday #139

Happy Motivational Monday, Friends! I had quite an eventful weekend, and I am just now getting a chance to catch up. But I will write about that tomorrow. Today, I will share a couple of Motivational Monday stories to hopefully give you all some motivation for the week ahead :) Enjoy!




After going through two stressful pregnancies, Amanda decided that it was time to take care of herself. She started Weight Watchers at 245 pounds, which she believes is about 20 pounds less than her highest weight. She also started doing Leslie Sansone's exercise videos three times a week, as well as Zumba at the local YMCA a few times a week. During one of her Weight Watchers meetings, a woman talked about how she got started running, and Amanda was inspired to try it herself. She went out very early in the morning, so that nobody would see her, and she ran/walked for two miles. She felt "on top of the world", and at the end of the summer, she ran her first 5K--a Color Run. She met a running partner online, and they've met up to do several races together.

Since her initial weigh in at Weight Watchers, Amanda has lost 80 pounds! She is hoping to lose about 20-30 more pounds, but she is not letting that get in the way of celebrating her success. She has discovered that exercise helps her mind and her life, and she loves that it's even rubbing off on her kids--her seven-year old is very active in sports at school, and her four-year old even does plank with her. Amanda's hard work and successful weight loss has inspired several people in her life!




About two years ago, Tiffanie was at her heaviest of 212 pounds. She decided to start running, even though she was self-conscious of her weight. She would go to the apartment gym every morning to run a mile for about a month, and then she started increasing her mileage. Her first race was a 10K, and from there, she was hooked! She and a friend trained for a half-marathon together, and when that was over, she swore she'd never do a full marathon. You can probably guess what happened next... she signed up for a full!

Two weeks before her race (the Minneapolis Marathon), the race was canceled. She wasn't about to let all that training go to waste, so she found a marathon in Washington that same weekend. She and her parents took a trip across the country for the race, and she had a fantastic first marathon experience--even finishing in 4:11! She inspired her dad to start eating healthier and take up running as well. Tiffanie says that "being selfish for a while to better myself was exactly what I needed to be a better daughter, sister, and friend in the long run." Her next goal? A sub-4:00 marathon!




Congrats, Amanda and Tiffanie, on your success! You should be very proud of your accomplishments :)

If anybody would like to share a story for Motivational Monday, you can find the info here.

February 20, 2017

Motivational Monday #138

Happy Motivational Monday!

It's been a long time since I've done a Motivational Monday post, so I'm excited to bring it back today. For a while, I wasn't getting many submissions anymore, even though I was getting a ton of feedback from people saying they loved Motivational Mondays. So, I made the decision to stop doing it (I didn't enjoy scrambling to put something together each week). So, we'll see how this goes...


I was excited to kick off today's post with three very motivating stories! I hope you enjoy reading them as much as I did :)


This first email is from Theresa--she and her daughter Lindsey reached a pretty impressive goal!
"Ever since my first marathon at  age 53 in 2011, my daughter and I had toyed with the idea of running an ultra. It was on my daughter’s bucket list and I wanted to help her out, so I suggested to her in May 2016 that there would be no “good” time – we needed to just do it!  
It was the culmination of 21 weeks of training (500 running + 147 walking miles). We ran and ran all summer, but didn’t see the course until 3 weeks before the race. We intended to do our last long training run there, but were so unprepared for the hills! After only 3 miles, we felt defeated and walked most of the way back. We expected some hills, but nothing like that! We live on the flats, so had NO hill training. My butt was so sore from only 3 miles… how in the world would I ever survive 35 miles of hills?  
When race day arrived, we were nervous, we were excited, but mostly terrified! The weather was gorgeous, but the hills were killers (lots of them and many were HUGE) along with the other obstacles of some narrow, bumpy and rutted paths, twigs under all the leaves, many low, mud-filled areas that muddied up our shoes and took some maneuvering to cross. We stumbled, but never fell; not even on the log balancing act! We were determined to finish even if we ended up last. We weren’t last, but at 10.5 hours we definitely got our money’s worth from our entry fee!"


Pam, below, has been on her weight loss journey for about the same time as I have, and she's gone through several ups and downs, too. She has been "following" me since SparkPeople in 2010, and I just adore her! I am super proud of her (how many people in their 60's take control of their weight and lose 168 pounds with good old diet and exercise?!! She's the only one that I know.) :)
"On April 15, 2011, I hit my original goal weight of 160 lbs. which was a loss of 168 lbs. from my all-time high weight of 328 lbs. in July of 2009. I maintained at around 150 lbs. for several years before a 35 lb. gain starting in late 2013. I got that gain back off by Christmas 2014, but ended up going off-track once again, and before I stopped I had gained over 50 lbs. back, topping out at 203 lbs. in October 2015.
Your talk about goals really hits home with me. My son was getting married in October 2016, so with that GOAL in mind (I'm with you--goals are GOOD!), I joined Weight Watchers online in April 2016, weighing in at 185 pounds (my half-hearted attempts had led to an almost 20-pound loss in the months between October and April), and by that wedding last October, I weighed in at 149.4! I consider 150 my "happy weight," and felt so good about myself. I had taken a picture of myself in the dress I bought for the wedding when I got it in April. Then I took another picture at my goal weight and was amazed at the difference that 35 lbs. made. After losing 178 lbs., I really thought 35 pounds didn't make that much difference. but it sure does!! The dress still fit okay, but it looked so much better at 150 lbs., than it did at 185 lbs.  That is the picture I attached..... 
Now I need to find another goal, because once again I have regained a few pounds.  Like you, coming to the realization that summer is your regain time, I have decided the holidays and winter is my regain time. Hopefully I can continue to get back on track once again and get back to my happy weight. I need to set a new goal--obviously!!!"


Finally, this last email is from Rhonda, who I am looking forward to meeting in Vegas! (I love your husband's comment from the starting line, by the way--haha!)
I always enjoyed the Motivational Monday postings so am excited to see you bringing that back to the blog.  Like you, I also do best when having goals “Out there”.  I set a goal a few years ago to run a Half Marathon every month.  I felt this goal would keep me focused on my running and training consistently.  I don’t necessarily set speed goals for myself as speed work tends to bother my hips… so I’m basically a turtle and am in it just to finish.  This past weekend, I ran the Heart Breaker Half in Hillsboro, Oregon and that was my 24th consecutive month running at least one Half.  There are a few months in there where I ran two!  The weather was cold at the start (30 degrees) but fortunately no wind.  My husband (my biggest supporter) walked with me to the start line, and as we were shivering, he turned to me and said, “Why can’t you have a normal hobby like knitting or something like other women?”  I’m still laughing over that one.




Ladies, thank you SO much for sharing your accomplishments! I love seeing stuff like this in my inbox again :)

If you have a story you'd like to submit for next Monday, you can check out how to do so here. Thanks!

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