January 08, 2021

Friday Night Photos #4

Here is my weekly photo "dump"--basically a bunch of photos that I took throughout the week and never posted or had any real use for. This is my favorite post of the week! A mishmash of it all. Some of these are actually from Christmas! I don't think I posted any photos from Christmas.

This week, though, I have a lot of pet photos. I'll post those first :)

Here are all four cats in the living room anticipating some catnip. They LOVE it! Especially the kittens (I need to quit calling them that, because they are bigger than Estelle and Phoebe). After I give them catnip, the kittens wrestle with each other for a good 15 minutes. It's so fun to watch them play!



Jerry was eating some leftover ham from Christmas and the kittens smelled it. They were ALL OVER HIM trying to get some. And of course, he kept giving them little pieces of it. Duck was even trying to stick his head in Jerry's mouth. Notice Estelle just watching from behind.



Chick thinks he's still a little kitten and can squeeze into tiny boxes. He tried to get comfy enough to sleep in there, but realized he's more plus-sized now.



I thought this picture of Chick was funny because he just looks like a big fur ball and you can't even tell which part of him is which! This is when he loves to get his belly rubbed.



When I got my new shoes, Duck claimed the box practically before I took the shoes out.



I have been waiting to capture this photo for the longest time! I never knew what a "sploot" was until I took a photo of Duck doing it (lying on his stomach with his legs sprawled behind him). Joey does the same thing sometimes. I've been wanting to get a photo of the two of them doing it together--and here it is!


How much the kittens have grown!



This was our living room on Christmas morning, hahaha. We'd gotten the boys kayaks and they are HUGE. Once the kids went to bed, Jerry and I went out in the garage (in the snow) at 1:30 in the morning to carry these kayaks from the garage and into the living room. It was hilarious! We kept bumping into everything, calling "Pivot! Pivot!" and just generally making a lot of noise trying to get these in the house.



Duck doesn't like to be held while you're walking around, but he lets Eli carry him--and only if Eli carries him just like this. Then he's totally content!

Eli in his kayak. It's a fishing kayak, so it's a little wider and has storage space and a fishing pole holder and stuff like that. He's also wearing a shirt we got him--it says My Musky Lure is Bigger Than Your Fish. If you've ever seen musky lures, then you know it's pretty accurate! ;)


On my walk a few days ago. The lake was so calm that it was like glass. A huge difference from last week!



And then it got cold... ice cold. I even saw people ice skating on the canal one day, which I thought was dangerous because it wasn't frozen for more than a day. And it was mostly melted by the following day. This time of year, there are usually a couple of drownings because people think the ice is solid and it's not.



So, this was Jerry's really bad haircut AFTER he screwed up his hair. The only thing I could do was cut the sides at a #1. You could still see his bald patch, but not as badly. It's gotten a bit better, now.



These are the new ASICS (Amazon affiliate link) I got, and I'm so thankful that they have worked wonderfully! They were only $50 and they fit really well. They're comfortable and they haven't given me any problems. Now, instead of my daily walks costing me $2.17, they will only cost 83 cents! They help quite a bit with my supination issue, too.


Aside from making me look enormous (the puffy coat along with layers of clothes isn't exactly flattering), I was really happy with the coat that I bought on Poshmark... with one exception. It had a mildew-like smell. I washed it twice and the smell remained, so I ended up returning it. I'm super bummed! So, I'm still on the lookout for a coat. Not sure if I'll try Poshmark again.


We finally sat down to play Catan as a family--I'd been wanting to play, but you need 3-4 players so Jerry and I couldn't play by ourselves. The family loved it, but I wasn't crazy about it. It reminded me a lot of Monopoly, which is probably my least favorite game ever (other than Scrabble!). At one point in Catan, I wasn't able to make any moves at all for the rest of the game. We only played it once, so I'll try it again and hopefully I'll like it better.


These are the stretching exercises I've been doing every day. I skip some of them and focus mainly on the ones where I have problem areas (neck, shoulders, hips, back, hamstrings--haha, pretty much everything anyway). I do feel a difference in my pain when I do the exercise. I don't feel as sore in general. It's motivating to keep it up!



Finally, I saw this somewhere (probably Facebook?) and I really liked it. Everybody matters.

Happy Friday, Friends! Have a great weekend :)

January 07, 2021

15th Birthday 'Favorites' Questions


Today, Eli turned 15 years old. Fifteen years! That's crazy to me. He was born on 1/7/06 at 1:06 PM. I always think how cool it would've been if he'd been born 24 hours earlier--1/6/06 at 1:06 PM. Because I'm a numbers nerd, of course ;)

I was going to post a bunch of photos of him throughout the years, and once I got about 30 minutes into sorting through pictures, it hit me that I'd better check to make sure I didn't do that last year on his birthday.

And, sure enough, I did. Hahaha! I posted a trillion pictures of him last January, so you can look through those if you're interested in seeing him grow up--he was the most ADORABLE kid ever. Total strangers would literally stop me in public to say how cute he was! And women always commented on his eyelashes ;)

Since I already posted so many photos, I figured I'd post something different today. I actually came across this form today of birthday interview questions for kids (which you're supposed to do each year as a child grows up--too bad I only just found it today on Pinterest!). The questions aren't anything super interesting, but a list of current favorites to compare with each birthday. (Here is the original pin, but it was really blurry, so I just typed out the questions.)

Here are Eli's current favorites on his 15th birthday:

What is your favorite color?
Blue

What is your favorite toy/item?
Fishing rod

What is your favorite fruit?
Watermelon

What is your favorite TV show?
Psych

What is your favorite thing to eat for lunch?
Quesadillas

What is your favorite outfit?
Jeans and a long-sleeved fishing shirt

What is your favorite game?
Fortnite video game; Beat the Parents board game



What is your favorite snack?
Puppy Chow

What's your favorite animal?
Squirrels


What is your favorite book?
Hatchet

Who is your best friend?
Michael

What is your favorite cereal?
Corn Pops

What is your favorite thing to do outside?
Go fishing


What is your favorite drink?

It was Pepsi, but now it's iced tea. [Side note: I challenged Eli to quit drinking pop for a full year--he was addicted to it! I never bought it, but he would drink it at my parents' house all the time and/or buy it from the store with his own money. I told him if he gave it up for a full year, I would deposit $365 into his savings account. I honestly didn't think he'd make it a week! But it's been six months now, and he still hasn't had any pop.]

What is your favorite holiday?
Christmas

What do you like to take to bed with you at night?
A bottle of water and Joey (my dog)


What do you like to eat for breakfast?
Ramen noodles [my kids are obsessed with Ramen!]

What do you want for dinner on your birthday?
Detroit Beach gnocchi [Detroit Beach Pizzeria is a hole-in-the-wall family-owned Italian restaurant that is famous to the locals here. This is actually what we ate for dinner tonight--Eli's choice!]

What do you want to be when you grow up?
A DNR officer and a fishing guide

Eli's such a great kid--I'm sad that he's growing so fast! But I'm super lucky to be his mom :)

January 06, 2021

Fun Old Home Remedies and Heritage Cookbooks (Interesting!)


On my wedding day, my favorite aunt gifted me three cookbooks. She was (and probably still is) the most amazing cook I ever knew. To this day, nobody can compete with her stuffed cabbage! She even made it for my wedding reception with 200-ish guests.

She could even make Kraft Macaroni & Cheese from a box taste gourmet--haha! (She used to care for my younger brother and me while my mom was working when we were little. Funnily enough, I remember whispering to her when she was cooking it for us for lunch, "Give me the most.")

When I was young, I recall her collecting recipes from the people in the small town where I grew up--Rockwood, Michigan--to put together a cookbook. The book was put together by some women in the Rockwood Historical Society and includes a lot of interesting info!


Some of the recipes came from the rationing days during the war. Many of them are from the 1930s and 1940s. Also included are some old time home remedies and household hints.


I grew up in a very small town where everybody knew everybody. Looking through these books, I recognize so many names of women that lived in Rockwood. A couple of the recipes are even submitted by "me"--including "Puppy Chow"! (You know, the Chex Rice cereal with peanut butter, chocolate, and powdered sugar?) 

There are no photos in the books, which makes it that much more special--you have to use your imagination to picture a particular recipe. And no matter what, you can rest assured that it will taste good. These are the women's best recipes! These are the recipes that you would expect to find at a potluck and everyone would know just who made it because they were "famous" for it.

Some of the recipes don't even include the exact amounts of each ingredient because they were made "by feel" or "by how it looks". If you've been cooking a particular dish for a long time, then you know exactly how that is. 

Here is an example recipe excerpted from the St. Charles 1910 Cook Book, which was included in the first Heritage Cookbook:

Mutton Broth

Wipe 2 pounds mutton; cut into pieces. Place in saucepan with 2 quarts cold water. Let it come slowly to a boil, then add 1 teaspoon salt, which causes a scum to rise. Simmer for 1 hour, skimming occasionally. Then add 1 small turnip, one small carrot, one small onion, all chopped fine, and 2 tablespoons barley and cook until vegetables are tender; salt and pepper to taste. Just before serving add 1 teaspoon chopped parsley.

Interesting, right?! I actually had to Google what "mutton" is, haha. Not all of the recipes are like that, but I thought it would be fun to try out a recipe from the heritage cookbooks once a week and then post the recipe and report back on how it was (with photos). I've already cooked one of them, so I'll post that soon.

Each week, I'll post a recipe that I've cooked from the book (as written! No exceptions.). And I'll include some of the hints and tips that women included. I find those even more interesting than the recipes themselves ;)

These are some "Old Time Household Hints" that, well, aren't exactly what you would expect to see today! Here are some old home remedies from the heritage cookbook:

For Arthritis - 1-1/2 pounds of seedless raisins, 1 pound figs, 3 ounces olive oil, 1 ounce glycerine, 1 ounce slipper elm powdered, 3 ounces charcoal powdered, 3 ounces cenna powdered. Mix dry ingredients. Grind raisins and figs. Mix all together with hands. Make balls the size of a small walnut. Makes nearly 100. Take 2 a day for 2 weeks, then 1 a day till all gone. (From Carol Tilley's grandmother, Mrs. Art Laura)

For Rheumatism - 1 pint whiskey and 1 pint skunk oil.

Liniment for Bruises and Sprains - Shake up the white of an egg, one tablespoon of vinegar and one ounce of turpentine. Apply to sprain as soon as possible after accident.

Cream of Roses (for Hands) - Twenty-five grains gum tragacanth, 10 ounces water set on back of stove until dissolved. If lumpy, strain through a sieve. Add forty grains boracic acid, dissolved in one ounce of glycerine by aid of heat, two ounces alcohol and a few drops oil of roses or white perfume. If too thick to run from bottle when cold, add more water. Fine for hands.

Burned Fingertips - Quickly grip ear-lobe with burned finger and blistering will be prevented.

Fever Blisters - As soon as first soreness is felt, start drinking large glasses of apple cider. Drink often. Blisters won't come.

Nightmares - Place a pan of cold water under bed.

Seven Year Itch - Rub with sulphur and axle-grease.

We've certainly come a long way, haven't we?! I think it's hilarious that there is a "cure" for the seven year itch! And the cure for rheumatism... I'm not even sure what to say about that one.

Anyway, there are a LOT of "Helpful Hints" from back in the day included in these recipe books, and I think it'll be fun to try out the recipes and share the interesting tips that are included. I'll call these posts "Heritage Recipe: ______", so you know what to look for if you're interested in them.

I think it goes without saying that these tips and hints should be used at your own risk... I am not condoning the use of turpentine, skunk oil, or cenna. Haha!

January 05, 2021

Transformation Tuesday #8 (I think!)


Well, don't I feel dumb!

After requesting people to share before and after photos for Transformation Tuesday, someone commented that she had sent me one recently, but I must not have gotten it. I looked in my email and didn't see it. Then it occurred to me to check the specific email that I'd set up just for Transformation Tuesdays. I set that account to forward all emails to my regular email account.

So, I signed into it, and sure enough--I had several Transformation Tuesday emails in there! A few were from a year ago. Apparently, I'd never set it up to forward the emails, so I just thought I wasn't getting any. Ugh!

Anyway, now I have a couple of weeks' worth of Transformation Tuesday photos to share :)  I'm not going to post all of them today because I want to have something to post next week in case I don't get more submissions (PLEASE send them!). I love these posts--it's so fun to see the transformations.


Hi Katie,

I have a transformation.  We've lived in our house for 7 years but I've done very little to decorate our master bedroom.  I love doing crafts, so I decided to make a macrame wall decoration.  I've never done macrame before, but with the help of a pattern from Etsy, I'm so proud of what I was able to create.  It was a great quarantine project!

Jennifer, a lover of all things crafty - Terre Haute, IN



Hi Katie! I thought I’d send you some pics of my pandemic projects: a dining room table and bench—all for my dining room.

I am not typically a DIY person but decided to give it a try. This table was one my husband grew up around so even though it’s not a particularly high-quality table (it has a laminate top), it has sentimental value and it’s still a very sturdy table with some life left. For the “after”, I removed 2 leaves (leafs?) and got rid of the blue chairs, as I wanted the table to take up less space. I also added the rug.

For the bench, I got it at an antiques store and I attached two “after” photos of it so you could see the awesome fabric (my husband’s an avid hunter so it complements other hunting-related decor). For both the table chairs and bench I had to re-upholster which was a whole other project that I’m not great at but good enough (thanks to YouTube) for it to end up looking ok.

I am so impressed with all the projects you’ve tackled and it inspires me to try some more DIY projects. I’ve got a few on my list!

Mary Newton - Madison, GA




Hi Katie! I’m so excited to see these [Transformation Tuesdays] are back! I have some quarantine projects I’ve been working on so I can send you some pics.

We turned this somewhat useless coat closet by our kitchen into a pantry! I love having the extra shelves for food! 

Amanda, Wisconsin, a very basic DIYer 



I have to say, I'm SUPER impressed with the transformations! I tried my hand at macrame a couple of years ago and I just could NOT get the hang of it. It looks amazing, Jennifer. It totally transformed that wall!

And Mary... the upholstery! Your skills are fantastic. As I wrote about on my blog a couple of years ago, I tried out reupholstering a piece of furniture and gave up very quickly. I couldn't believe how complicated it was. Great job! Also, I LOVE the color you painted the table.

Amanda, I love that you turned the coat closet into a pantry--pantries are so much more fun, aren't they?! Hahaha. You did a great job with the shelves and I love how organized it is!

Thank you thank you thank you to those of you that sent in Transformation Tuesday submissions! I still have some that I haven't posted, so if you sent me something, I didn't forget about it. I'll post a few each week, as long as I keep getting submissions :)

Remember, the before and after photos can be of anything you want! Clothing upcycles, weight loss, hair cuts, DIY projects, landscaping, pet adoptions, whatever you can think of. To submit one, just email a before and after photo (I will collage them together) with a description of what you did--from a sentence to a couple of paragraphs is fine. And be sure to include your name, location, and what it is you like to do for fun! (You can choose to remain anonymous if you'd like--just let me know.) The email address is Katie (at) runsforcookies (dot) com. Just use the subject "Transformation Tuesday".

January 04, 2021

Motivational Monday: We Lost 100+ Pounds!

This is actually a repost from 2015. It's been a long time since then and I thought now, being the first Monday of the new year, would be a great time to share it again. This post is about several people who lost 100+ pounds--their before and after photos and their best tips and advice for losing the pounds. I find it super motivating (not to confuse motivation with determination!) and I'm sure you will, too.



I have a VERY special Motivational Monday to share today! Since this is the 100th Motivational Monday post, I thought it would be so fun to share photos and tips from several people who have lost 100+ pounds. I'm in the 100+ club myself, but even I learned some great info from reading what these inspiring people had to say!


While I wish I could share each of their entire stories, that would be extremely lengthy; so I decided on a Q&A type format. I gave each of them a list of questions, and let them answer as many or as few as they wanted, and I'm posting the most valuable and unique answers here.

Be prepared for some serious inspiration!!


AMANDA
Age: 32
Occupation: Social Media Coordinator
Starting weight: 293
Pounds Lost: 126
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 6 months


How did you lose the weight? I tracked calories with the Lose It! app and started a couch to 5K app in March 2014, which sparked my love for running.

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? The first few months were the hardest because I was cutting calories and getting more exercise but wasn't seeing results right away. I wanted instant gratification! I read motivating weight loss posts that reminded me that I would see results eventually and that I had to be patient.

What was the most surprising/helpful thing you learned about yourself while losing weight? Running is fun and therapeutic! I used to hate it, but now I crave running and enjoy the time to myself to just think and focus on everything in my life.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Make it a lifestyle change! Find healthy foods you love so it doesn't feel like a diet that burdens you. Find an activity you love to do so you don't dread/avoid exercise.


AMY
Age: 37
Occupation: Stay-At-Home Mom
Starting weight: 270
Pounds Lost: 135
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 6 months


How did you lose the weight? I joined a 12 week weight loss competition at my gym (3 times in a row, as they do it spring and fall). The first time, I won third place; and the last two times, I won first place! The competition provided challenges to compete in, and also involved lots of bootcamps, classes, and cardio, as well as information sessions on nutrition. They made it fun, and I guess I am a bit competitive :-)

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? Starting the change and being totally out of my comfort zone about trying new things and new classes. I used to watch the classes and finally just had to push myself to try them. The more you go, the more fun it gets; and I discovered that nobody really cares what I’m doing, because they are all worried about what they are doing :-)

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Don’t let one bad day discourage you; if you mess up, pick yourself up, try to stop beating yourself up over it, and move on. Baby steps--it all happens little by little, not overnight.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Everyone is different, but for me (still being new to this), I weigh myself every morning. I try to stay in a five-pound range, and if I see that number going slightly up for a few days then I know I need to change something up. I also find honestly writing down what I eat (yes, even that cheat snack) helps me stay on track.


CATHERINE
Age: 38
Occupation: Marketing Manager
Starting weight: 282
Pounds Lost: 110
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 10 months


How did you lose the weight? I used Medifast to take off the majority of the weight, and did the last ten pounds or so on Weight Watchers.  After I lost most of the weight, I started a 5k training program, and now I run/work out regularly and follow Weight Watchers to maintain my weight.

How do you keep going when you are lacking motivation and feel yourself falling back into old habits? I try to remind myself of how much better I feel now, and how much I am able to do that I couldn't at my heaviest.  I couldn't even get through the first day of C25K before, and I recently completed my first half marathon.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Keep trying, and don't give up. I tried to lose weight dozens of times (and with multiple different programs) and never lost more than 40 pounds, which I always gained back. Even if you stop and start 100 times, just keep going.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Tracking everything I eat (and weighing and measuring) is extremely helpful. I also have a plan for what I'm going to eat every day and when I'm going to exercise -  putting it down on paper helps me stay on track and not fall back into bad habits.


CHRISTINE
Age: 44
Occupation: Part Time Special Education Teacher / Part Time Travel Agent
Starting weight: 350+
Pounds Lost: 110
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 14 years
Blog: Magical Adventures Await


How did you lose the weight? I lost my weight using Weight Watchers.  At first, I didn't exercise; but then I added short workout videos at home, and then gradually started working out in the gym.

How do you keep going when you are lacking motivation and feel yourself falling back into old habits?  I got into running.  I am still really slow and I use a combination of running and walking, but having a race on my schedule with a goal to look forward to keeps me motivated.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight?  Don't try to make huge changes all at once.  Start with small steps.  Even if you are going to watch your diet every other day, it is a start; and then you won't feel like you are deprived.  You can gradually work up to a healthy meal plan daily, with some planned indulgences.

What do you wish your “heavier self” had known?  That losing weight and getting active was possible.  I was overweight for the first 31 years of my life. I just never thought anything else was possible.

It is never too late to start.  I am 44, still working on losing weight and I am training for my first full marathon!  Anything is possible!


CLIFF (Jodi's husband - her story is further down)
Age: 31
Occupation: Database Administrator
Starting weight: 660
Pounds Lost: 315
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 5 years


How did you lose the weight? More than anything, it was a mental change of making up my mind to be consistent and to not give up. Physically, I started by cutting out things that I knew were bad for me that I felt like I could live without (for me, soda was the first thing), and limiting my calorie intake according to a formula I found online and later MyFitnessPal. I then began working out regularly (1-2 days a week at first, then 3, now I’m up to 5).

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? Overcoming my lifelong conditioning of eating poorly was the hardest part, by far. During childhood, I had formed horrible habits and was 450+lbs by the time I left high school. Overcoming it was a process of altering habits gradually; changing the kinds of foods I ate over time so it didn’t feel like I was having to get rid of all food that I enjoyed (read: was addicted to) all at once, and lowering my food intake in stages rather than trying to go ‘cold turkey’ as I had tried in the past.

How do you keep going when you are lacking motivation and feel yourself falling back into old habits? My wife helps me a lot. We’ve been very fortunate in having each other for support. If I feel like I’m slipping she’ll generally be on point and vice-versa. In a ‘long term’ sense, I also focus a lot on trying to lengthen my life as to spend as much time with her as possible, which is a big motivator. Also--old pictures. Nothing makes you remember what life was like 300 pounds ago, and how you never want to go back, like old pictures.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Slipping ‘off the bandwagon’ isn’t a reason to give up. Don’t expect yourself to be perfect. You won’t be. Instead of looking at one night of bad eating (or whatever you did) as ‘failure’ look at it as a bump in the road on a long journey. Don’t use it as an excuse to break down and stop, use it as a reason to work harder tomorrow.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Don’t approach weight loss as if it’s a short term project that you can complete in a year or two and then you can ‘go back to normal’. Instead you have to create a new normal for yourself. If you want to keep weight off you need to come to a mental understanding that living healthy isn’t something you’ll be able to stop doing if you want to keep it off. It’s not a situation where you lose 50 pounds, or 100 pounds, or whatever your desired number is, and you can just go back to how things were that made you unhealthy in the first place.


DEB
Age: 40
Occupation: Elementary Music Teacher
Starting weight: 315
Pounds Lost: 142
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 10 months


How did you lose the weight? I don't restrict any food groups (but some foods I choose not to have around much because of binge potential). I track food on MyFitnessPal, and found that I rather enjoy running--for how it makes me feel, and the additional calories that help me be satisfied and not "cheated".

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? The hardest part for me is the constant mindfulness that is required; sometimes I feel like it takes up too much of the space in my brain.  I still struggle with that.  Also, I struggle with the "all or nothing" mindset... sometimes in ridiculous ways. For example, rather than buckle down on the calories on days I don't earn extras from exercising, it is a battle to not just say, "Well, I already didn't exercise, may as well eat a second burger", or whatever is tempting that day. I know what I need to do and how to do it, but I wish I didn't STILL have this internal struggle from time to time.

What was the most surprising/helpful thing you learned about yourself while losing weight? I can talk myself into or out of just about anything. Sometimes I just forget that.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? You deserve to be healthy, comfortable in your own skin, and able to enjoy life feeling good. Making healthy, reasonable, and responsible food choices while allowing yourself things you enjoy, and staying physically active can make this a reality.

What do you wish your “heavier self” had known? After failed weight loss attempt after failed weight loss attempt, I had myself convinced that (as ridiculous as it sounds) 300+ pounds was my body's "natural" weight--it was where my body wanted to be. Now, I look at those pictures and feel really disconnected from that. It was, of course, an excuse to not make the changes that my body really craved. Now, though I am still on the large side, I look at those pictures and can't imagine that I could ever think that I was destined to be like that.  I wish my heavier self had known that it was okay to expect that life could be better and that I COULD do something about it; it just takes patience, self-forgiveness, and stubbornness.


ELICIA
Age: 29
Occupation: Stay at home Mom
Starting weight: 265
Pounds Lost: 120
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 3 years
Blog: Elicia's SparkPeople Blog


How did you lose the weight? I used SparkPeople.com, tracked my calories, and exercised 4-5 times per week.

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? The hardest part for me was changing my eating habits. Eating smaller portions, eating different foods, and tracking everything. I made small goals and made meal plans before grocery shopping. If I didn’t have it in the house, I didn’t eat it!

What was the most surprising/helpful thing you learned about yourself while losing weight? Before I lost weight, I assumed I was just a big boned person. However, as I was losing I kept having to buy smaller and smaller clothes. At my goal weight of 140 pounds, I was a size 2! I couldn’t believe it! I was at the top of the healthy BMI range and was a size 2.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Make small goals. I initially made a goal to lose 10 pounds. I hit that goal, so I kept making small goals until I reached my ultimate goal weight. I also recommend tracking everything that you eat. Even if you are having a bad day!


EMILY
Age: 23
Occupation: Stay-At-Home Mom
Pounds Lost: 105
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 5 years


How did you lose the weight? I hired a personal trainer to teach me how to exercise and eat properly. Then I found a passion for learning about nutrition, and I continued on my own by eating right and exercising (including running, of course)!

What was the most surprising/helpful thing you learned about yourself while losing weight? I learned that I love to cook! Because I began losing weight as a teenager, I’d never really cooked for myself before. I had to take the opportunity to learn new recipes and different ways to incorporate new healthy foods; turned out I really enjoyed it!

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Your mind is powerful. If you believe you’re going to fail, your actions will follow your thoughts. Visualizing myself at my goal weight was a trick I used that really worked and got me through many workouts.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Don’t expect to be perfect—you’re going to gain weight once in a while. People who have always been a healthy weight fluctuate too! Don’t throw an entire day, week, or month away because you overindulged for one meal.


JENNIFER
Age: 35
Occupation: Stay-at-Home Mom
Starting weight: 332
Pounds Lost: 141
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 2 years


How did you lose the weight? I always answer this question by saying "just how the doctors tell you to do it... be careful about what you eat and MOVE!"  I started out walking and then, slowly, running; all while watching what I ate. I never followed a specific plan or cut anything completely from my diet.

What was the most surprising/helpful thing you learned about yourself while losing weight? Probably the most surprising thing that I learned about myself is that I'm a runner... and I just ran my first half marathon!  If someone had told me three years ago, after the birth of my fourth child, that I would run a half-marathon three years later, I would have laughed in their face. I learned that I am capable of more than I could have ever imagined!

How do you keep going when you are lacking motivation and feel yourself falling back into old habits? I think about my husband and four little ones. My momma just passed away in July, at 57 years old, after a long struggle with diabetes, kidney failure, and many other complications.  I saw what a struggle the last 10 years of her life was like... I know what if felt like to watch her go through it. I know what it feels like to no longer have her here to see, to talk with, to get advice from.  I don't want my kids or husband to go through the same. That is motivation enough.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Keep at it. Try again. YOU CAN DO IT!  I tried for years before something finally clicked.  Start simple.  I didn't start out attempting to lose weight... so my focus wasn't on the scale. I just started walking several times a week, and after a month or two, I realized that I had lost weight. Worry less about the number on the scale and more about trying to make small changes to improve your health.


JESSICA
Age: 36
Starting weight: 284
Pounds Lost: 110
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 1.5 years
Blog: A Little More Each Day


How did you lose the weight? I joined Weight Watchers in July 2012 the day after my birthday. I tracked points (not simply filling) and got to goal in a year, with running in the mix too.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? If you aren't willing to do it every day for the rest of your life (whether it is a type of exercise or a food you're eating/not eating or an amount you're eating or a medication you're taking), don't rely on it as a strategy to lose weight or you'll just regain it when you stop doing that thing. Also, give yourself credit for the things you're doing well. On days the scale isn't moving, you're still eating healthier and moving more and that has benefits beyond the scale.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Find a way to hold yourself accountable, whether it is regular weigh-ins, or a support group, or a refusal to buy new pants (I do all 3). Also, make a list of why you lost weight and why you want to maintain that loss and review it often! I pull mine out when I smell fresh chocolate chip cookies. :)

What do you wish your “heavier self” had known? I wish she'd known that she wasn't unhappy because she was overweight - she was just unhappy and needed to work on believing in herself. Running has done far more for my sense of self than losing weight ever did, so I would definitely like to go back and give my 250 pound self who started running a super high five!!


JODI (Cliff's wife - his story is above)
Age: 32
Occupation: Healthcare Auditor
Starting weight: 380
Pounds Lost: 181
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 2 years
Blog: House Bailey


How did you lose the weight? I started working out at least 3 days a week and using My Fitness Pal. I started on a recumbent bike, then elliptical, and now I'm running.

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that?  I actually had two giant obstacles in my way at first.  One was the complete dislike of most fruits and vegetables; and the second was being a sedentary, heavy smoker since the age of about 13. I quit (officially) smoking when I started running (about 18 months ago) and through a lot of trial and error, have taken baby-steps to eating (and liking!) lots of fruits and veggies. Slowly introducing new foods and exercise was definitely the key.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Read Katie’s blog! Her mantra of not changing anything that you can’t stick with forever was a very eye-opening thorough process for me.  I contribute so much of my success to her story and ideologies about the mental and physical struggle of losing (and maintaining) 100+ pounds lost.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? I keep a control center on my fridge, complete with pictures of what we used to look like and how we have changed over the years.  We keep a spreadsheet there as well and weigh in every Wednesday and keep a workout schedule that we fill out each month.  It’s a constant reminder to stay the course.


JULIE
Age: 49
Occupation: Third-Grade Teacher
Starting weight: 240
Pounds Lost: 100
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 15 months


How did you lose the weight? I lost the weight by running and following Weight Watchers.

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? It was all equally hard.  Staying motivated has always been an issue for me.  I stayed motivated by finding blogs to follow on the Weight Watchers site, and elsewhere on the internet, of people who lost weight by running and/or following Weight Watchers.

What was the most surprising/helpful thing you learned about yourself while losing weight? I am goal-oriented. I need to have a goal, like a race, to keep me motivated, otherwise I get lazy.

How do you keep going when you are lacking motivation and feel yourself falling back into old habits? I still go to Weight Watcher's meetings every Saturday. That really helps me.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Give yourself time. Think about how you want to look a year from now, and think about what you are doing NOW to make that happen.

What do you wish your “heavier self” had known? I wish I had known how happy I would be at a normal size. I wish I had known that running, and other forms of exercise, really are the best therapy.  I wish I had known that endorphins make you feel great!  I wish I had known that the changes in your body that consistent exercise makes is like magic!


KAREN
Age: 29
Occupation: Stay-at-Home Mom
Starting weight: 274lbs
Pounds Lost: 117
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 7 months


How did you lose the weight? I signed up with MyFitnessPal and started counting calories. I dabble with paleo and clean eating, but I mostly just eat what I want within my calories. Counting calories opened my eyes to the nutritional value of a lot of junk foods and I stopped eating a lot of those things! I started exercising and running within this past year and that has helped shed the weight a lot faster coupled with my healthy diet.

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? The hardest part was thinking about how much work I was putting in with eating correctly and exercising so much and still having so much weight to lose. When you're in the middle of losing an amount of weight like 100lbs it can mess with your mind. When you feel awesome that you've already worked so hard to lose a number like 50lbs and then realize you have another 50 or more to go, it can defeat you if you let it.

What was the most surprising/helpful thing you learned about yourself while losing weight? Everything!! I've never been a fan of exercising, and I especially hated running pretty much my whole life. Who knew I could be a success story and willingly train for a half marathon? I didn't know I could be this person, and I really like her!

How do you keep going when you are lacking motivation and feel yourself falling back into old habits? This happens to me a lot, and I'm so fortunate that I really love running because when my eating slips up those miles are the only things that help me keep going! It's hard, but you just have to take it one day at a time, throw the junk out, fight those cravings with tears and tantrums and get back into it again.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Look at before pictures!! Remember the who and the why that you're doing this for, remember how you felt then and how good you feel now. And running helps too!


KELLY
Age: 27
Occupation: Administrative Assistant
Starting weight: 274
Pounds Lost: 115
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 3 years


How did you lose the weight? Weight Watchers - full lifestyle change and hard exercise program.

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? Feeing like I couldn't eat what I want when I wanted. I overcame it by still allowing treats, but planning for them instead.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? If you are tired of starting over again and again, then don't quit.

What do you wish your “heavier self” had known? How awesome life is when you are a normal healthy weight! The things you can do and places you can go are SO much bigger.

Losing the weight was the best thing I could have ever done for myself. Now I get to be a great role model of a healthy lifestyle for my daughter so she will not have to go through what I went through. What an amazing gift to give her!!!


LINDSAY
Age: 35
Occupation: Police Dispatcher
Starting weight: 304
Pounds Lost: 130 pounds initially, and five years later I am maintaining 110 pounds lost.
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 6 years
Blog: Lindsay is a Lifetime Member


How did you lose the weight? Weight Watchers helped me to lose the weight and continues to help me to maintain the weight lost.

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? The hardest part was making the change in the beginning.  I was living the single life and eating out all the time.  It was a huge adjustment, so I made the Weight Watcher plan fit MY life.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Stay connected to a support system.  Meetings, on-line message boards, walking buddies, family and friends, whomever it is... stay connected. When somebody stops communicating that means they need some extra support.

What do you wish your “heavier self” had known? I wish my heavier self knew that she was beautiful.  I always knew I was an awesome person on the inside, and after losing my weight, I feel the outside now matches the inside.  Regardless of the packaging on the outside, I was, and will always be, a beautiful person.


NICK
Age: 30
Occupation: Technical Operations Manager for Standing Cloud, an AppDirect Company
Starting weight: 317
Pounds Lost: 120
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 2 years


How did you lose the weight? The company I work for moved to an office with showers and I started running before work with friends / co-workers

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? Winter; I hate running on the treadmill, I feel like a hamster :-). I started playing lots of indoor sand volleyball instead (something I really enjoy).

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Find ways to work out that you really enjoy so that it's something you look forward to rather than having it as a chore. Find healthy things to eat that you don't have to gag down.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Same as above; you need to find ways to eat and exercise that are sustainable.


PAM
Age: 64
Occupation: Retired Secretary
Starting weight: 328
Pounds Lost: 170 lbs.
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 4 years
Blog: Pam's SparkPeople Blog


How did you lose the weight? I simply started eating healthier, fruits, veggies, using better cooking methods, not so much frying and breading! I quit snacking all the time, and started walking. I started slow, both in cutting back on my eating and my walking, but as the pounds dropped, I got more enthusiastic, and tried harder. I walked further and ate healthier!

How do you keep going when you are lacking motivation and feel yourself falling back into old habits? This is tough. I keep a "before" picture on my fridge and I never forget all the humiliation that went along with being morbidly obese. I also try to remember all that I have gained  in my life by losing the weight--I can walk anywhere, and fit in chairs, airline seats, booths in restaurants, I went from taking five prescriptions for high blood pressure to needing no prescription drugs at all! I got my health and freedom back and I refuse to give it up!

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Just remember: You have the power. You are in control of the choices you make. It feels so good when you make good lifestyle choices. The shame and embarrassment I felt over what I had done to myself is gone.

Keeping the weight off is a never-ending battle for me, but I try to stay determined, because going back to that sad, overweight, unhealthy woman I was for so many years is just not an option anymore. My husband is fighting Stage 4 Cancer, which will ultimately be terminal, and that gives me added motivation. I need to stay healthy and strong in order to take care of him, just as he took care of me for our whole married life.


SARAH
Age: 35
Occupation: Stay-At-Home Mom in Nairobi, Kenya
Starting weight: 265
Pounds Lost: 101
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 1 month
Blog: One Mama Gets Fit


How did you lose the weight?  I lost the weight by eating clean (whole, real foods) and working out six days a week.  All that old fashioned advice - it actually works!

What was the hardest part of losing the weight, and how did you overcome that? Living overseas and not having access to modern equipment/classes/gyms (or being able to just go out for a run because of safety concerns) and all the fancy health food; and on top of that, having young children (especially one who wakes multiple times at night) - the hardest part has been keeping my mental focus on the goal (even when very sleep-deprived).

To overcome this, I have posted motivational statements and sweet notes from friends around the house and doing my best to bring as much newness and spice to my workouts so that they don't get old.  A bonus? Having a husband that keeps me on my toes and lovingly encourages me every day that I can do this!

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Give grace to yourself.  We're not perfect and losing weight won't be perfect.  When you make a decision that you're not terribly proud of, give yourself grace and then try to do the next best thing.


TAMARA
Age: 41
Occupation: Wife, Mom, and Second-Grade Teacher
Starting weight: 340
Pounds Lost: 138
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 2 years
Blog: Tamara Shazam


How did you lose the weight? I realized that the work was going to be hard and it was entirely up to me to get it done. I couldn't rely on a feeling, mood, external motivation or anything consistently besides my own will and determination, so I started running, rethinking my food intake and forced myself to be really honest about everything I ate, thought, and did.

What was the most surprising/helpful thing you learned about yourself while losing weight? Even though in 2014 my goal was to lose weight, I actually unintentionally maintained my weight.  What I learned, quite by accident, was that maintenance will look nothing like going back to my old habits; maintenance takes just about as much work and focus as losing weight does. This is truly a lifelong nutrition and exercise shift, and I can't stop the work when I hit my goal.

How do you keep going when you are lacking motivation and feel yourself falling back into old habits? My body project was chugging along slowly when a friend suggested that I start reading Runs for Cookies. It was there that I read about the significant trifecta between me, motivation and determination. Katie wrote about how my determination allows me to take an active roll in my weight loss, while waiting for motivators (like I had been doing), was taking a more passive route.

It was a life-changing moment for me, and from then on I've relied on my determination, primarily, to move forward, and use the pride I know I will feel when I meet my goal as motivation.  I have used physical tokens as rewards for when I meet a goal, but I find that they really aren't as motivating as the accomplishment itself in the end. I also keep a website so that I have a public forum from which to share my story.  Holding myself accountable publicly is HUGE motivation!!!

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? You have to be really honest with yourself.  That may sound easy and you may think that you are in your own head so that's impossible to be anything but honest, but I spent years telling myself that I was just was a certain way and had medical challenges that prevented me from being successful. Those were just lies I told myself to give the excuse to stay unhealthy, because my real truth was that I was crazy lazy when it came to my health in general.

What do you wish your “heavier self” had known? With the exception of a brief year at the end of high school, I have always been heavy and didn't know any other way of living life.  I wish I had known how much I was limiting myself.  My world is so much bigger now. Life isn't intimidating anymore.


VALERIE
Age: 31
Occupation: Mental Health Crisis Counselor
Starting weight: 288
Pounds Lost: 129
Time maintaining 100+ pounds lost: 6 months
Blog: Fit2b30


How did you lose the weight? Ate fairly "clean" and in moderation, as well as a combo of exercise--strength training and cardio. I worked out 4-5 times per week when first starting, but now down to 3-4 times per week. I stuck to lean proteins, lots of veggies, fruits and high-quality carbs.

What is your best advice for others who are trying to lose weight? Just start making small changes at first and don't make large goals at the beginning. Start with small goals, and when you hit each one, then you can change them as you go. The more manageable your goals the easier they are to achieve and maintain. Also, you won't become as easily discouraged if you set small, manageable goals.

What is your best suggestion for keeping the weight off and not returning to old habits? Put old pictures of yourself up somewhere or on Facebook so you can see how far you have come and what you have achieved. Why would you want to go back to your old self if you were not happy with it?

What do you wish your “heavier self” had known? I wish I had really been aware at the "food" I was eating and how bad it really was for me. The "food" that I was eating was not actually food, it was all processed "frankenfoods" that had absolutely no nutritional value.

It is NOT easy to lose weight, but it is possible! It takes hard work, motivation, determination, as well as heart to achieve your goals. Take it one step at a time and you can achieve it! If I could do it, you can too!



How inspiring are they?! I am so stunned by all of these amazing people. If they gave you a boost of motivation today, please leave them a comment here and let them know!

A huge congrats to everybody on your hard work!!

January 03, 2021

What It's Like To Blog Daily For One Year


On January 1, 2020, I made a goal to post on my blog every single day for a year. In 2019, I'd gotten more and more slack with my posting and I was afraid my blog was just going to sizzle out completely. I didn't want that to happen, so making that goal seemed like a good idea.

I had no idea just how DIFFICULT it was going to be! It sounds so simple... just write a little about my day or use a writing prompt when I wasn't sure what to write. But it was much more complicated than that.

First, 2020 ended up being the wrong year to choose this goal, apparently. With the lockdown, every day started to feel like groundhog day (remember that movie?)--the same thing, day in and day out. You can only write so much about the same thing.

My friend John told me a few months ago that I shouldn't start any of my posts with, "This is boring" or "I don't have anything interesting to say" or something like that, because he found it interesting regardless. So I tried to stop doing that. But I still FELT like it was boring and I was embarrassed posting some things.

We had to cancel our family vacation to San Francisco, which was something I could have written a week's worth of posts about. We weren't able to get together friends or go out together as a family to places like restaurants, the movies, bowling, or things like that. We couldn't even get together friends for bonfires, parties, game nights, etc. So those topics were out.

I wasn't losing any weight (other than when I was doing 75 Hard) so I didn't have anything to write about on the weight loss front. And I was too embarrassed (I still am) to do Wednesday Weigh-Ins.

All things I could have written about.

Instead, I wrote a list of writing prompts--many of them I got from the internet, some I got from John, and some just popped into my head. When I was really stuck for a topic, I would try to pick something from that.

The problem is, a lot of them would leave me feeling very vulnerable. I didn't always want to do "fluff" posts, but I was scared to post deeper feelings as well (I always am). So, I tried to keep a mix of the two. Some fun posts and some serious, vulnerable posts.

I did (and still do) enjoy writing about various projects I've done or am working on (crafts, DIY, etc). I find those interesting without leaving me feeling too vulnerable. They are few and far between, though, so they didn't take up much as far as my posting goes.


Adopting the kittens was great because I was able to write about them sometimes. They've grown so much! They weigh more than Estelle now. (Phoebe is tiny, weighing only seven pounds--but the kittens are 11 pounds.)


Posting about the challenges (summer and fall) was a great opportunity to write frequently. Unfortunately, I didn't follow them and that didn't work out.

Thankfully, I did a HUGE project for four months: completely making over my garage. I did every last bit of it by myself, and I am so so so proud of that. It was a ton of work but I couldn't be happier with out it turned out. I was even able to move my crafting stuff in there with its own little corner and now I don't have to drag it out to the kitchen table whenever I want to sew something.


Because of the daily posting, I had to get creative with different topics. I certainly couldn't post about weight loss or crafting or DIY stuff every single day. I had to do a mishmash of topics. I hoped this wouldn't stop people from reading because of losing interest (not everybody wants to read about particular topics) but in the end, I decided that it's MY blog and I'm not writing it to please other people. It's for me! 

There were a lot--and I mean a LOT--of days where I would stare at my computer at 11:00 PM and not have a single word written. I just couldn't think of what to write! Even looking at my writing prompts didn't help. I'd given myself permission to post just a photo for the day if that's what I needed to do; however, I felt guilty when I didn't at least write a few paragraphs. This year, I'm not going to let that bother me. If I have to post just a photo, I'm going to do so!


What I would REALLY love to do this year is to have certain topics on most days: a recipe on one day, Transformation Tuesday (see below), Weight Loss Wednesday, Friday Night Photos, a summary of the week on the weekend, etc. Maybe Motivational Monday again if I can get people to submit them!

Here is where I need your help to get these started.

Transformation Tuesday - This is all about transformations having to do with any topic at all. It could be a before and after of a haircut, upcycling an article of clothing or piece of furniture, before and after/during weight loss, ingredients turned into a meal, anything DIY, etc. ANYTHING GOES.

All you have to do is send in one before photo and one after photo, plus a paragraph or two explaining what you did. (Even just a sentence is fine if you don't want to write much!). Then you can include your name and where you are from (optional). These posts were very well received but I can't post them if I don't get submissions. So I beg you, please send me some submissions! 

You can send the two photos and the description to my email at: katie (at) runsforcookies (dot) com, using the subject "Transformation Tuesday". Depending on how many I get, I may save it for another week.

Motivational Monday - This series is where you can shamelessly brag about an accomplishment! Whether you run or walk your first 5K race, or you complete the Couch to 5K program, you take a class and learn how to decorate a cake, you lost two pounds that week, you got over a fear of flying, or anything else. When other people (including me) see these things, it's motivating to do something for ourselves! 

My friend Jen hit her mileage goal for the year, so that would be a great one to share. My friend Adam completed 75 Hard and his photos were amazing. My friend Emily took on the project of making a little free library (with my help) and used power tools for the first time.


Those things are motivating! But again, I can't do the series unless people submit photos/stories, big or small. If you think it's boring or trivial, think again! You may really inspire someone to try something new. To submit this, just send a photo or two to compliment your accomplishment, along with an explanation (a sentence, a paragraph, whatever!) to my email: katie (at) runsforcookies (dot) com with the subject line "Motivational Monday". Again, I will post them as I get them, depending on how many. It could be that week or it could be several weeks. But I will post them!

Finally, if you have a story that you'd like to share, I'm always willing to consider guest posts. I'm very selective about these for several reasons, but I'd love to read posts from others. People have amazing stories, even if you may not think yours is interesting. Maybe you are a foster parent and can share what that's like, or maybe you have an unusual job, or maybe you have a child with special needs. Maybe you have a mental illness and want to share about living with that. 

If you'd like to submit a guest post, please email me with your idea (not the whole post) and I'll let you know if I think it will fit in. But don't be shy about it! Reading others' stories is super interesting.

Okay, I think that's about it for this post! Basically, writing daily for a year is hard but rewarding. I'm proud I did it! But it's very hard to come up with ideas sometimes, so I can certainly use your help in these series ideas I have. PLEASE consider sending something in. If you're unsure about it, you can ask my opinion and I'll tell you what I think. And if you want to remain anonymous, that's cool, too. Just let me know.

Happy New Year, everyone! I think that 2021 is looking up already. I've been sticking with my goals/habits (even though it's only day three). It feels good, though. :)  xo

January 02, 2021

My Book List From 2020


This is more for a reference for myself, but I am going to post it anyways. This is a list of all of the books I read and the audiobooks I listened to in 2020...

BOOKS I READ (13):

'A Curve in the Road' by Julianne Maclean
'Can't Hurt Me' by David Goggins
'Delay, Don't Deny' by Gin Stephens
'Dry' by Augusten Burroughs (I read this and later listened to the audiobook, forgetting that I'd read it!)
'Every Last Drop' by Sarah Robinson
'If You Tell' by Gregg Olsen
'Lying Next to Me' by Gregg Olsen
'One Last Second' by Sam Vickery
'The Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes' by Suzanne Collins
'The Last Thing She Ever Did' by Gregg Olsen
'The Stillwater Girls' by Minka Kent
'Unspeakable Things' by Jess Lourey
'Where the Crawdads Sing' by Delia Owens

AUDIOBOOKS I LISTENED TO (24):

'An Anonymous Girl' by Greer Hendricks & Sarah Pekkanen
'Buried Deep' by Margot Hunt
'Dear Wife' by Kimberly Bell
'Dry' by Augusten Burroughs
'Drunk Mom: A Memoir' by Jowita Bydlowska
'Fast Girl: A Life Spent Running From Madness' by Suzy Favor Hamilton
'In the Blood' by Lisa Unger
'Little Pretty Things' by Lori Rader-Day
'On Call in the Arctic' by Thomas J. Sims
'Running Man' by Charlie Engle
'Seal Team Six' by Howard E. Wasden
'Stranger in the Lake' by Kimberly Bell
'Tell No One' by Harlan Coben
'The Boy in the Photo' by Nicole Trope
'The Cuckoo's Cry' by Caroline Overington
'The Girls Weekend' by Jody Gehrman
'The Killer Across the Table' by John E. Douglas
'The Marriage Lie' by Kimberly Bell
'The Obesity Code' by Jason Fung, MD
'The Perfect Block' by Blake Pierce
'The Perfect Wife' by Blake Pierce
'The Stranger Inside' by Lisa Unger
'Three Days Missing' by Kimberly Bell
'You Are Not Alone' by Greer Hendricks & Sarah Pekkanen

I'm actually pretty happy with this! I read an average of one book per month. And ALL of the audiobooks were listened to while I was walking. When you walk that much, you get to listen to a lot of books! :) 

Interestingly, I don't remember about 75% of these books--I couldn't tell you what they were about. That scares me--I am terrified of losing my memory. 

Without spoiling, here are a few words about some of the books (links are Amazon affiliate links):

My favorite book of the year was definitely 'Where the Crawdads Sing'. I could NOT put that book down! Loved loved loved it. 

'Drunk Mom' was also a good book--I've read a lot of memoirs (love them) but this was the most raw, honest one I've ever read (listened to). She said things that I think most people would be too ashamed say.

'Can't Hurt Me' was extremely motivational. Everything David Goggins went through to become the beast that he is now is mind-blowing.

'The Marriage Lie' made me cry (ugly cry!) through the first hour and a half of listening while on my walk. I just kept imagining it happening in my own life and good grief. The whole book isn't sad, though--just the first part.

'The Boy in the Photo' made me really think about what I would do in that situation and how hard it would be as a mother.

'In the Blood' had the most shocking twist of any book I've read/listened to. I did NOT see it coming!

'The Obesity Code' was SO informative and eye-opening. It's what really made me want to do intermittent fasting.

And there you have it! I've read/listened to 37 books in 2020--I'm pretty impressed with myself. In 2021, I hope to do more reading. I started 'The Evening and the Morning' by Ken Follett yesterday. It's the prequel to my favorite book, 'The Pillars of the Earth'. It's nearly 1,000 pages, so it might be a while before I finish!

January 01, 2021

My Goals for 2021


Happy New Year! I'm sure we are all hoping for a much better year than the last.

As you know, I love new beginnings and fresh starts. As cliché as they are, I also love New Year's resolutions (although I call them "goals" to sound a little less cliché). I usually pick a few big goals each year, and despite my best efforts, I fall off the wagon at some point. But I do tend to hang on to one or two of them each year and see them through.

In 2016, I made a goal to set a personal record in my 10K--and I did it!
In 2017, I made a goal to record one second everyday (on an app)--and I did it!
In 2018, I made a goal to pay off our debt--and I did it!
In 2019, I made a goal to give up alcohol for the entire year--and I did it!
In 2020, I made a goal to write a blog post every single day for the year--and I did it!

In each of those years, I had other goals that I wrote, but I didn't complete them. These are the big ones, and I'm proud that I stuck with them--they were long-term goals and not easy to do.

This year, I'm going to make some big goals and lots of little goals, and we'll look back on December 31st to see what I actually stuck with ;)

So, here goes...

1. Get my weight back down under 144. Ideally, I'd love to see 133 again, but I will be thrilled to get in the low 140's. 

To do this, I plan to do intermittent fasting, which is by far my favorite way of eating. I can see this as a true lifestyle change--something I can do forever. It fits into my life very well. However, I tend to eat too much during my "window", so I'm going to work on reducing that. 

Getting in water is important to me, too. I felt great when I was doing 75 Hard and drinking a gallon of water every day.

And along with diet, I am going to give up alcohol again for 2021. I did drink in 2020 (I'll have to write a post about that--I can't remember if I did already!). I didn't realize how much better I felt while not drinking for all of 2019 until I drank again. It's definitely not worth it. But it becomes a habit that is so hard to break. I did it once, though, and I know I can do it again.

2. Continue my streak of walking 5+ miles per day. I'm really pretty stunned that I've managed to continue this for so long! Today is Day 167. I think it would be awesome if I could not only make it to 365, but to continue for the rest of the year.

In addition to the walking, I've started to get the itch to start running again. A few times during my walks, I decided to run a mile just because. I actually kind of miss it! I'm not going to set a specific goal for the number of miles or anything like that. But I was thinking that once in a while, even if it's just once a week, I could run a mile or two after my walk. No pressure, but something that would make me feel good about myself.

3. Start stretching daily after my walks. I've been in so much pain for the last couple of years and it's only getting worse. Especially when I'm stressed--I get terrible knots in my shoulders and back. It makes my body feel really stiff and I KNOW that stretching will help. Once I get a little more limber, I may even try yoga as well. 

Today, I stretched for 30 minutes after I did my walk and it was amazing at how little flexibility I have. I've never been a very flexible person, but right now is the worst it's been. My main reason for doing it is to hopefully get rid of (or lessen) my pain.

4. Continue to blog daily. I won't write much about this now because I actually plan to write a post about what it's been like to blog daily. It was MUCH more challenging than I thought! But I did it--every single day for 366 days last year.

I'd like to try to make some post series: Transformation Tuesday (I loved that one!), Friday Night Photos (this has been fun), Weight Loss Wednesdays (to check in with how things are going in my attempt to drop this weight), etc. I think having a structure like that to my blog will make it easier to come up with post ideas.

5. Develop a routine and stick to it. The "Goal Crazy" planner/journal that I bought is perfect for this. I broke down all of my goals into tiny segments which involve habits to do each day. Doing these habits will help me to build a routine. I always feel so much better when I have a routine.

Along these lines, I also have to learn not to let things throw me off when something comes up. Even things like going out to dinner with a friend or having Luke and Riley come over can throw me off and make me feel overwhelmed because it's out of my routine. I want to work on NOT letting that bother me and to fit things into my life without feeling lost.

I know that sounds silly to a lot of people, but for someone like me who thrives on a day to day routine, it's very hard when things come up. So I need a good routine, but one that is flexible enough for me to allow other things to take priority temporarily. 

6. To do one project per month--whether it's knitting/crocheting, sewing, woodworking, or something else, I want to work on a hobby because it makes me happy. It's "me time" that I look forward to.

7. Get more sleep. This goes along with the routine, but I want to make it a point to get more sleep. No more staying up until 2:00 AM and getting up at 6:30 AM. I'm going to set my bedtime at 12:00 AM, but I will be in bed by 11:00 PM--where I can read or write or something like that. My body needs more sleep.

Okay, those are a lot of goals! But like I said, I've broken them down into small chunks that I can handle and my planner is perfect for helping me to stay organized in order to meet them. And next year, if I report that I only stuck with one goal, hey--that's better than nothing! Might as well aim high :)

Anyone else have goals for the New Year?

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