February 23, 2023

Three Things Thursday: Relationships

I was having trouble coming up with something to write for Three Things Thursday today, so I decided to do some google searches and hopefully spark an idea. I started to type a search query, and then thought it would be fun to pick one of the suggestions:


I can definitely tell that these weren't targeted at me, hahaha. Pretty sure I've never googled anything close to those!

Since Jerry and I will be celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary this year, I thought it would be nice to write about three things that make a relationship great. It doesn't say it has to be a romantic relationship, but that's immediately what I thought of. I would say that Jerry and I have a pretty great relationship--so here are three things that *I* think make it so. I hope it's not too mushy!  (It totally is.) ;)


1. We trust each other.

Seattle in 2017

It's a totally cliché response, but it's true. There is no one in the world I trust more than Jerry. I know how much he loves me and would never do anything to hurt me, no matter what the situation. Even when we argue, I trust that everything is going to be fine.

We feel super secure in our relationship (and always have) so we don't question and wonder things like, "Why is he late coming home?" or "Who is she texting?", etc. When we see movies or TV shows where couples get extremely jealous over normally-harmless things, and even going through each other's phones and belongings, we often comment about how much anxiety we would feel in a relationship like that.

We're also extremely honest with each other (probably too honest). We tell each other everything (the stuff that matters, I mean--I'm pretty sure he doesn't care about how far I got on my knitting project or how long I played fetch with Duck that day!); we just don't keep secrets from each other. I know I can say anything I want and not be judged. 

I overthink everything, worry about everything, and just have anxiety in general... but the one thing I am not at all worried about is our marriage. Everything would feel so much harder if I didn't have a partner that I trust.


2. We choose time together over material things.

"This way we won't have to sleep with our heads in the mud." --Bubba
A quote from Forrest Gump that we say probably more frequently than you'd think!

Everybody is different and cares about different things, so I don't judge how people choose to spend their money. I think most people probably splurge on certain things and cut back on others, depending on what is important to them, so it may balance out in most cases. We don't drive fancy cars, we have a relatively small, modest home, and we don't try to "keep up with the Joneses" by owning very expensive things. (I'm not saying there is anything wrong with big houses, fancy cars, and lots of material possessions--those things just aren't important to us.)

If we cared about that stuff, sure--I could get a full-time job and continue writing my blog, and Jerry could pick up overtime every day of the week--but we would never get to spend time together. We genuinely like hanging out together, so we found a balance that works for us. We both agree that we would rather have time and create memories together than live an expensive lifestyle.


3. We laugh together. A lot.

Jerry told me, "Take a selfie--with a Jerry face!--while I look sick. Then all of your haters will hate you even more for having fun while I'm in the hospital." BAHAHAHA


Maybe it's because I can be totally uninhibited in front of Jerry, but we say the most ridiculous things and we have a million inside jokes. Once in a while, we even scroll through memes together--memes always give me the giggles and after a while, every little thing sets me off into a laughing fit. When I start laughing at everything, it usually causes Jerry to get the giggles as well. Soon, we are both laughing so hard we are wheezing.

I think that having the little inside jokes brings us closer. Sometimes the things we laugh about are totally inappropriate, so it's fun to have someone who "gets" the humor (and doesn't get offended by tasteless jokes). Even if we aren't really doing anything but sitting and having a conversation, laughing together makes it fun.





Jerry and I got married super young. We started dating when I was 17 and he 18; we got married four years later, when I was 21 and he 22. (And had a baby 11 months later!). A lot of people were discouraging our choice to get married so young because the odds of us staying together were definitely not in our favor.


Our relationship is faaaaar from perfect, so I don't want to make it sound that way based on this post. We have disagreements like any other couple and we have pretty much nothing in common--our interests are as different as could possibly--but, somehow, it works in our favor. We balance each other out nicely! And I'm just lucky that I found my partner so early in life :)

February 22, 2023

Wednesday Weigh-In: Week 91


Finally. I feel like I'm moving in the right direction again.

I did really well this week with working on changing my food habits. I feel like I'm over the initial hill--the sugar cravings, trying to get used to eating more regularly, eating smaller portions, not snacking at night--and it was much easier this week.

Last week, I think it took five or six days to kick the sugar cravings. I was kind of worried to eat the chocolate cake I made for my vegan recipe review because I didn't want to have to struggle through cravings again, but I'd been wanting to try that recipe for such a long time.

I ate a piece of cake, and sure enough, I craved sugar after that for two days! I knew I just had to get through it and not let one piece of cake derail my progress. It was incredibly difficult, but I managed to cut myself off after the piece of cake. (I had Noah take the rest to my mom and dad's so it wouldn't be in the house.) I felt really confident in myself after that!

Anyway, I was slightly disappointed when I got on the scale and saw only a small loss, but I remembered how I was telling Jerry yesterday that all the small losses add up quickly. I think that because I put it on so quickly, I was expecting to lose it quickly. (As we all know, it never works that way!)


I was at 147.8 today, which is down from 148.6 last week--so I lost just under a pound. Still, it feels good to see the scale moving down. I panicked a few weeks ago on the scale, and it was a wake-up call for sure. I knew if I didn't get RIGHT back to it, I would gain back everything I lost over the last 91 weeks. I feel like the last two weeks have been very productive in getting my mojo and confidence back.

The two biggest changes I've made is cutting out the sweets (I don't think there is anything wrong with dessert, but I have discovered that, for me, one dessert leads to terrible cravings for more sweets. After that initial hump of 5-7 days or so, I find it MUCH easier to skip over the sweets. And now I know! I heard that over and over, and never really believed that was true--but I don't think I'd ever taken a whole week's break from sweets before. Feel free to say you told me so ;)

My only snack after dinner has been dates and/or prunes. So weird, I know! But they are very sweet (in a good way) and I've always loved them. They were super helpful when I was craving sweets so badly.

Going into Week 92, I really want to work on getting in more water (I know, I sound like a broken record). I've only been drinking 1-2 liters a day, which is half of what I used to drink. Still, this past week of focusing on my eating habits has made a huge improvement in my attitude and I feel back in control.

I feel good going into this week, and I hope I'll have some good progress on the scale next Wednesday!

February 21, 2023

Jerry Loses His Dad Bod: Week 6



Jerry is now six weeks into his "Operation: Lose Dad Bod" goal. When I mentioned to him just now that this is week six, he was shocked. He said I might as well not even do this series on my blog because he's not making any progress. It's entirely up to him whether he wants to do it or not, but he said he'll give it another week or two; if he isn't seeing better progress, he thinks it will be a waste of space on my blog. (I disagree)

He just told me that this is a "completely reevaluate how I'm going about this" week, which he is going to write about below. He looked so serious when he was typing--and it's pretty long!


He actually did really great this week. The scale has been going down, but very slowly. I can understand his frustration, because I've been through it countless times; he's doing everything right but not seeing the progress he feels he should. I don't want to speak for him on all this, so I'll just let him take over.

As an update from last week, Jerry hasn't throw up at all ever since! Like I said, it's so weird how there really isn't any rhyme or reason for when/why it happens. I appreciate all the suggestions/ideas via comments and email. 

Anyway, here is Jerry... 




Down from 190.8 last week


Captain's log, star date 2.21.2023.

It's week 6 of my journey and I feel like I'm spinning my wheels in the mud here. I'm trying to lose the 'Dad Bod', and maybe even see my chin one day soon, and I'm feeling pretty good with my eating but I'm not seeing the results I was expecting. I used to lose the weight pretty easily when I gained a little bit but that's just not the case. So, I think I need to re-evaluate how I'm going about this.

Here are some of my bad habits. I'm sure everyone would agree that they're terrible:

1. I shy away from fruits and vegetables, unless they're mixed in the meal.

2. I eat way too fast. Katie has been nagging pointing out that I eat remarkably fast. 

3. I snack too much. Pretzels are my go to. I used to have hummus with them. That transitioned to mustard. And, now it's evolved into spritzing olive oil on them and adding some sort of seasoning to it. I'm also sure that I eat, at least, 3 servings of them. Not good. 

4. I try to eat within a certain window and tend to eat 2 smaller meals at the same time as opposed to spreading them out. 

5. I don't exercise. I make it a point to stay active at work, but other than that, I haven't been exercising.

See? Pretty bad. Now, I can pinpoint all the problems with all of the bad habits: 

1. Fruit is pretty delicious. I love bananas and cuties. I could probably expand my love of fruit to other fruits if I would just do it. With the vegetables, I have never been the kind of guy to just eat veggies just because. I don't think I even ate a salad until I met Katie and we went to Red Lobster where I enjoyed a caesar salad. Now, I love salads. So, I need to incorporate more into my daily diet just for the nutritional value. And, just to be a responsible aging adult, I should take my multivitamins.

2. I know I need to slow down with my eating. I understand the benefits mentally and digestively of eating slower. However, I've always had this mental thing where I have to eat and drink things at the temperature they're supposed to be consumed. So, I can't let hot foods cool and vice versa. It's stupid, I need to work on that. 

3. I really should measure out how much I eat. Or, just put it in a smaller bowl or whatever. Maybe both. I don't really think that there is anything wrong with what I choose to have as a snack, it's more of how much I have.

4. Intermittent fasting is easy and a lot of people do it without defining it or being conscious of it. Essentially, it's eating within a window and nothing outside of that window. For me, defining it and putting a time on it mentally makes me feel like I have to eat my entire meal quickly. Oddly enough, though, I eat better when I'm at work than at home. With work, I'm limited to what I bring with me for lunch whereas at home I can have whatever I want and even go to the store if I want something different.

5. Exercise is something that should be a priority. Working nights can make things a little difficult but it's no excuse. That doesn't stop me from using it as one, though. LOL. I can, however, use a lack of space as a reason. I have always enjoyed HIIT (high intensity interval training) because I feel great after using my body to it's full ability and it never gets easier. With HIIT you're always pushing for more and more reps in the same amount of time, you don't just do 10 of something and you're done. You keep going until either you can't go anymore or the time is up. I've never been big into running, it's just so boring to me. But, I need to figure something out. 

Goals going forward... try to work on all of these. I'm not going to be perfect, and there is no failure. There is progress though and that's what I'm going for. 

Medically... I know some people voiced some concerns about my throwing up/regurgitation last week. I'm fine. It happens from time to time. It started a couple of years ago and I went to specialists to try to figure out what was going on. They ran tests and just told me I may have GERD and gave me Prilosec. Well, it never helped and I don't think that's what I have so I've given up until it becomes more serious. I'm tired of the constant guessing games these doctors or specialists play. I will tell you that I do take my health seriously. If I don't feel right I do seek help.

As far as my extracurricular activities last week... had a blast. The kids always enjoy the local wrestling shows when we go, although they won't watch the shows on TV with me. I've been a fan since I was 6 years old and I watch wrestling 4 times a week.

As far as 'Ant-Man and the Wasp: Quantumania' is concerned, we loved it. The kids and I have a long standing tradition of seeing Marvel and Star Wars projects together. Even the shows on Disney+, they're all us. I won't go into detail about the nerd stuff because I imagine most readers don't want to read about Marvel and Star Wars.

Thanks for reading. 😘



Well, he definitely sounds more positive after writing the post and making a plan. I think he's making great progress, even if the scale is moving super slowly. While exercise has never played a major part in my weight loss/gain (meaning my weight doesn’t correlate with whether I’m exercising or not), I think it's different for Jerry. When he's been successful at losing weight, he's usually exercising in addition to making changes to his diet. So maybe he'll see more noticeable progress from adding the exercise. Regardless, he's been putting in the work!

February 20, 2023

Playground Tour

I don't know what I was thinking yesterday when I said I'd try to get Part 2 of my post done and published today! I made plans to spend the day with Luke and Riley--and on these days, I don't get *anything* done, haha.

I picked them up at 9:30 this morning and we've been super busy. We went to the library, but discovered it's closed today for President's Day, so we stopped at a park/playground. We're back at my house to eat lunch, and then we're going to go to a few more playgrounds. I thought a playground tour would be fun to do while Jerry is sleeping. 

Anyway, in case I don't get another chance to work on my post today (I'm sure I won't), I'll try and get it finished later in the week!

February 19, 2023

One Year Vegan, Part 1: Tips for Vegan-Curious and What I Wish I Knew Before Becoming Vegan


It was really hard to title this. I wanted to wrap up a full year of all sorts of things that I learned since becoming vegan in January 2022, but there is SO MUCH. I've learned more than I could have imagined about animals, the environment, health, food, cooking, ingredients, and more. I learned a ton about MYSELF, even.

I have said from the beginning that I don't want to be one of the vegans that tries to push it on other people, share horrifying videos of factory farms, and guilt-tripping people as they eat a burger. Becoming vegan was a personal decision that I made for ethical reasons. If anyone wants to know anything about it they can always ask me, but I don't like to bring it up myself.

Occasionally, though, I may write a post like this one--this post is NOT those guilt-tripping things I mentioned, but rather a list of random "stuff" about being vegan for over a year now: what I wish I knew beforehand, unusual-to-me food I started eating, tips for other new vegans that I probably would have found helpful, etc.

I'll try not to make this *too* long, but you know me... ;)

(Edit: It was too long, hahaha. So I'm dividing it into two parts.)

What I Wish I Knew Before Becoming Vegan

It's so much easier than I thought it would be! I used to dismiss the idea immediately because I thought there was no way I could ever cut that many foods out of my life. I especially thought it would be difficult to eat a vegan diet in an omnivore family. If I had known it would be this easy, I would have done it decades ago. (It's crazy to me that I'm old enough to say "decades" ago when referring to my lifetime, haha.)

My digestive system would feel a million times better. I never knew my digestive system wasn't really feeling okay until I started eating a vegan diet--the difference was very noticeable. No bloating or stomachaches, very "regular", and just generally a feeling of well-being.

My chronic pain (which had been diagnosed as fibromyalgia) would completely go away. This is what is the most stunning to me out of everything. The chronic fibromyalgia pain started in (I think) 2018, and it was horrible. About a month or so--I can't remember exactly--after I started eating vegan, I realized that I was able to get out of bed easily. Then I realized it had been a while since I felt the pain. It hasn't come back! (I do still have chronic back pain, but it's confined to one vertebra that is messed up. I also still have occasional knee pain from when I knelt on a screwdriver--I think that will be a lifelong injury.)

That most of the "weird" foods I said I wasn't interested in trying have become staples in my house, haha. I'll write more about this later but, basically, a HUGE world of food was opened to me after I'd been vegan for a couple of months and was interested in experimenting with new recipes. I had NO IDEA the amount of dishes you can make with tofu, for example. I started to really enjoy cooking again!

My first attempt at cashew cheese. It's under the toppings, I promise!


A high-powered blender is pretty much a necessity. I had absolutely no idea just how often I would use my blender (I use the blender probably 6-10 times a week--prior to becoming vegan, I probably used the blender 20 times in a decade). On Cyber Monday, I managed to get a Vitamix for a GREAT deal--$225, when it's regularly $300. It's the least expensive model; I didn't need bells or whistles, just a blender that would completely pulverize things like cashews until it's so smooth you would have no idea that cashews were even in there. I still use my previous blender for making seitan because it has a dough blade, but I use the Vitamix for everything else. If I had known how much I'd use my blender, I would have gotten a Vitamix from the very beginning.

You don't have to eat "weird" or unfamiliar foods on a vegan diet. When I first became vegan, I was just trying to figure out how to swap things out for already-familiar ingredients. I cut out animal products cold-turkey without any sort of planning, so I just had to wing it for a little while before I started experimenting with new recipes and ingredients. 

Something I ate very frequently in the beginning was some sort of grain (rice is simple and familiar to everybody), some sort of bean (chick peas work well when replacing meat because they don't get soft like other beans do), whatever veggie(s) I may have on hand, and a sauce (I make sauces by putting the ingredients in a mason jar and shaking well, then heating on the stove until it thickens (I use cornstarch as a thickener in sauces). These are all things that can be made ahead of time, so I could just grab them from the fridge and assemble a bowl. It wasn't until I was in a good routine with familiar foods that I decided to try things like nutritional yeast and tofu.


Tips for new vegans or vegan-curious (from a new vegan myself):

Have a short list of go-to meals you can make that you always have the ingredients for. It may not be an ideal balanced meal, but it's nice to have a few recipes up your sleeve that you don't have to put much thought into when you're in a pinch. When you're having a busy day and are stressing about dinner, just pick a go-to. My favorite is Truffle Mac & Cheese--I always have the stuff on hand and it's DELICIOUS. It's not very healthy, so I try not to rely on it *too* much ;)

Don't get intimidated to try the "weird" vegan foods, but introduce them slowly. I would start with things you're used to eating, only "veganized"--swap out meat for beans, for example. Plant-based milk instead of cow's milk. Vegan butter instead of regular.

When you come across unfamiliar ingredients in recipes you want to try, find a few recipes with one unusual ingredient they have in common so that you're not buying a (potentially pricey) ingredient for just one dish. I buy most unusual ingredients (like vital wheat gluten, nutritional yeast, spices that I can't find at the grocery store, etc) on Amazon. It's almost always cheaper, especially when I buy a larger container of it. (Rather than continuing to buy the small jars of turmeric, for example, I bought a bag of it that will refill my turmeric jar probably 6-8 times. It was only a few dollars more than a single jar.)

If you have an omnivore family, there are lots of ways to make mealtime easier. I listed several tips on my post called "Meal Compromises to Please Everybody". And for more food ideas, I have a huge post full of photos, called "What I've Been Eating Since Becoming Vegan".

Don't expect vegan foods to taste the same as the animal products you are replacing. There are very few foods that I would say taste almost *exactly* the same as the animal product it may be trying to replicate. You will be disappointed if you expect tofu to taste and feel just like chicken! That's why I don't like it when recipes are titled "Vegan Chicken Nuggets" or something similar--yes, maybe it sounds better than "Tofu Nuggets", but it sets unrealistic expectations for omnivores or new vegetarians/vegans. Instead, I look at vegan animal product-alternatives as entirely different foods. I can make the vegan and non-vegan version look and/or taste very similar to each other, but there are few vegan dishes that I think would actually fool omnivores into thinking they are eating a familiar meat.

I asked Jerry if he had any ideas for this post, and he echoed everything I just wrote about about replacing meat. It's not going to taste exactly the same, but why does it have to if it tastes just as good? He also said that it drives him crazy when people add the word "vegan" in front of everything--"vegan bean dip", "vegan chili", etc. For someone who isn't vegan, hearing that word can automatically be a turn-off to even tasting something. I would never try to trick someone by lying, but I don't add the word "vegan" in front of things, either. I make "bean dip" and "chili". I do add "vegan" in front of something that just can't be avoided--"vegan cheese", for example. If I just called it "cheese", then I feel like it would be too misleading. This was a big tangent, so let's move on...


As time goes by, your tastebuds change. You realize that you don't miss the foods you thought you would because you are perfectly happy having similar plant-based foods. I'll use the Truffle Mac & Cheese as an example. I call it Creamy Truffle Mac or just Truffle Mac (macaroni noodles with a creamy truffle sauce). I used to make homemade macaroni and cheese frequently--it was one of my go-to's--and now I make the Truffle Mac. They don't taste alike, but for me, the Truffle Mac is absolutely an acceptable replacement for mac and cheese. I don't miss the cheese at all when there is an amazing creamy sauce to stir into the noodles.


Homemade vegan food tastes so much better than the prepared vegan food you can buy at the store. There are a lot of vegan convenience foods available, and I've tried a few that were pretty good, but I 100% prefer to make my own stuff. And most of the time when I look at the ingredients list on the package, I already have most, if not all, of the stuff at home already. Sometimes I'll even take a picture of the package and ingredients, then try to replicate it at home. Also, there are a million different recipes for the same dishes--so if I try one and don't like it, I can always just pick another. There are recipes for vegan versions of everything you can think of.

Just for fun: What is odd about this picture?

August 2022

A. Katie is wearing a dress.
B. Katie is drinking a mocktail.
C. Katie has salad on her plate.
D. All of the above.

Hahaha! Answer is D, of course. But seriously, who even am I?!

Okay, I'm going to end this post here and continue on Part 2 (which I hope to post tomorrow)!

February 18, 2023

On This Day... (Feb 18)

I've been working reeeeally hard to get a post done in order to publish it today, but it's just not going to happen. It's going to be much longer than I thought! Anyway, I'm going to keep working on that now and *hopefully* get it posted tomorrow. Here is a photo (well, two photos) from February 18...

Joey loves to "catch" snowballs, and this was mid-catch in 2021.


Jerry, the kids, and me in 2007. I had just lost about 40 pounds, and I felt SO THIN in this picture, haha.

February 17, 2023

Friday Night Photos #104

It's Friday again already?! And mid-February? It's actually scary how fast time goes. The older I get, the faster it seems to pass by, too.

Anyway, once again, I don't have many photos this week. I just haven't been taking pictures of anything! However, I do have a couple of longish stories to go with photos. (I think they're entertaining, anyway.)

Here are the few pictures from my camera roll this week...

Erin, my reader-turned-friend that I met in Indy for a reader meet-up a few years ago, saw these Friends-themed conversation hearts and thought of me. She sent me a bag of them! I planned to do something creative with them to give Jerry for Valentine's Day, but it wasn't going as planned. So, Jerry and I just went through reading the hearts, while quoting and talking about different episodes. It was fun!




My brother Brian's birthday was on February 15th, so I asked Becky if I could have Luke and Riley come over and we'd decorate a cake for Brian. I'd been wanting to make this vegan chocolate cake recipe for probably a year--however, I don't love to bake and I'm not great at it, so it sat in my recipe book for the longest time. I thought Luke and Riley would have fun making Brian's birthday special, so I figured I'd bake the cake and frost it, then they could decorate it (which is the fun part, anyway).

Since this was my first time making a vegan chocolate cake, I was curious how it would turn out--so, I took pictures along the way to write a review on my blog. I'll do that this weekend, but this is a funny story...

I had no problems making the batter for this cake. I used a stand mixer, so the only "work" is just measuring stuff. The batter looked thin, but the recipe stated that the batter would be thin, so I was glad that I hadn't screwed up measurements.

(I always put a little batter in a cupcake mold when I make cake so that I can taste the cake itself without cutting into it--especially when I've never made this cake before.) I poured the batter into the two pans (and the cupcake mold) and I was surprised that the volume of the batter seemed low. Again, I just trusted the recipe. I read through the recipe again, and I hadn't missed any steps.

After I stuck them in the oven, I started cleaning up and then I tasted the batter from the mixing bowl. It wasn't good at all--it wasn't sweet like you would expect from a cake. I couldn't figure it out--I looked at the ingredients to make sure I hadn't missed anything. I just hoped that the cake would work magic while it was baking and it would taste great when it was done. I was glad I made the little cupcake to try it though!

While the cake was in the oven, I started thinking about it and I couldn't remember putting the sugar into the batter. I knew I had gotten the sugar out (it's in the ingredients picture!) and I remember looking at the measurement in the book. That must have been when I got distracted or something, but after looking through the photos, I realized that I never actually added the sugar.

BAHAHAHA

I let them finish baking anyway, because I was very curious how they would look and taste without sugar. I took the cupcake out and it didn't look bad. It was very flat and smooth; when I broke it open, it actually looked pretty good!



Well, that's where it ends, though. I tasted it and it was horrible! (If you're curious, this is what the cake looked like--very flat and smooth.)



Needless to say, I scrapped it and started over again. And I'll spoil the review now by saying that it turned out to be the BEST chocolate cake I've ever had--vegan or not. (I am 100% convinced that nobody would even know it's vegan.)

Shortly after I finished making the cake, Becky said that Luke was sick with a stomach bug, so the kids did not end up coming over. That meant I had an entire chocolate cake in my house.

I think I underbaked it a little because I was afraid of burning it--something I'm notorious for--but I really like chocolate cake that is just barely underbaked--it's so rich! But seriously, this was amazing. I managed to get right back to cutting out the sweets, despite how difficult it was to do so. A single piece of this caused major cravings for more sweets. So I'll go back to baking just a couple of times a year ;)


As someone who loves frosting as much as cake, it has to be a good ratio. This was thick with frosting and I didn't even use all of it! Anyway, I'll write more on my review, but here is the recipe if you're interested.


I decided to try growing sprouts again. I've always liked mung bean sprouts, especially in stir-fry dishes. The last time I grew them, I wasn't sure how to tell if they were ready to eat or not--they didn't look exactly like I was used to, so I waited. Probably too long. But anyway, I make stir-fry (a LOT) and I'm going to try this again so I can throw sprouts in there. This was yesterday when I started soaking them. I'm excited to watch them sprout :)




Phoebe is so sweet. She loves to lie in front of the heating vents or on an electric blanket or something like that--she's like me, always cold--but Jerry and I thought it was so cute when she started sitting on top of his computer when it's plugged in because it gets warm. She didn't want to move from that spot.



I already posted the recipe review for this Cashew-Bean Queso, but if you missed it, definitely give it a try (the queso, not the review, haha). It was SO good!



Last week, I posted a photo of the Wordle that broke my streak--I was so bummed! Well, the SAME THING happened again this week, with the word SOUND. I started with CLOUD, which wasn't bad! I got 3/5 letters, and the D was in the right spot. I assumed it would be _OU_D, and and N would fit into that fourth spot neatly. So I tried POUND. Then HOUND. Then MOUND. ROUND. WOUND. I still had FOUND, BOUND and SOUND to try! This was not a good idea for a Wordle word.



And I will end with a picture that may make your skin crawl...



After the whole nightmare of our pantry moths last year was over, I've been meticulous about keeping food sealed in airtight containers. I don't ever want to have to go through all that again. Today, when I was going to make dinner, I got out the container of brown basmati rice I bought less than a couple of weeks ago. When I'd come home from grocery shopping, I put it in an airtight container right away to put it in the pantry.

I'd seen a few dark brown spots in the rice, but I assumed they were grains of rice that hadn't been hulled. I find a few of those in every bag of rice I buy. However, when I got the rice out today and thought I saw a few more of them, my panic sensor almost went into full alarm. One of them moved, which absolutely caught my attention, and then I started really looking through the rice. There were probably about ten in there!

Then I realized that these HAD to be confined to the rice. The rice was relatively new and it had been sealed in the airtight container. I searched in the pantry very thoroughly to see if I could find any other evidence of them and there was nothing.

I found through a google search that these are called rice weevils. They're harmless, like the pantry moths, but they cause the same issues. And most of the time, the pantry pests are brought people's houses from a grocery item (makes me wonder how many we've eaten over the years and not known it!).

I cannot even express how THANKFUL I am to have started using the airtight storage containers after the pantry moths. I've been really meticulous with food storage, always putting things into containers right when I get home from the store. If I hadn't been doing that, the rice weevils could have contaminated everything in the pantry.

Okay, I'll leave you with that image. Have a great weekend! xo

February 16, 2023

Three Things Thursday: Jerry

Well, here we are again. Last week and the previous week for Three Things Thursday, I interviewed each of the kids (Noah and Eli) about their favorite things in several categories. Jerry said he was SO excited that it was "his turn" next week.

Hahaha, I had no intention of asking Jerry the same "favorites" questions as the kids for today's post. I told him that he's written quite a bit on here and people could probably answer these questions themselves (about Jerry)! But he was too excited, so I told him sure. These are the same questions that I asked Noah last week and Eli the week before...

What are your three favorite TV shows?

Friends
The Office
That 70's Show



What are your three favorite pastimes?

Watching TV and laughing with Katie
Disc golf
Hanging out with friends



What are your three favorite foods?

Chips
Pizza
Tofu

What are your three favorite things to talk about?

Star Wars and comic book movies
Professional wrestling
Sports


What are three things that make you laugh?

My jokes
Katie
Dad jokes


What are three things on your bucket list?

Buy a truck that I want and not settle for the more "responsible" decision
Travel to Europe, visit World War II sites
Add stuff to my man cave


What are three things you are most proud of?

My family
My work ethic
My weight loss


What are three things you like most about yourself?

My knowledge of Star Wars and Marvel things
Being easy-going
My sense of humor


What are your favorite articles of clothing?

My Ghostbusters hoodie
My skater shoes
My baseball caps


What are your three favorite memories?

Going to the Saturday market in Portland
Going to the Star Wars movie marathons
Doing selfie photoshoots with Katie long before cameras/phones had "selfie" mode

2007?


What are your three favorite school subjects?

History
History
History


What are three foods you cannot stand?

Olives
Cucumbers
Sliced tomatoes


What are the three most memorable gifts you've received?

The Snickers bar Noah got me (there is a long story to this, not sure if Katie wrote about it or not)
A bottle of Utopias from Caitlin in Boston
Katie's boudoir photos


What are your three favorite animals?

Cats
Squirrels
Hamsters

Jerry wanted me to post a picture of him with Chandler--Chandler was his very favorite cat he's ever had.


What are your three favorite things to do with your family?

Watch a movie
Play board games
Traveling


Okay, there we go. I'm pretty sure Jerry has answered all of these at some point, but he was way too excited to answer the questions for today ;)

February 15, 2023

Wednesday Weigh-In: Week 90


(Yes, those are pajamas. I'd already gotten ready for bed when I realized I forgot to take a picture, so rather than change into clothes, I just took the picture with my pajamas.)

Well, like I mentioned yesterday, I had a pretty great week as far as my food goes. I feel like I finally got serious about working on my snacking habits this week. It was really difficult, but I'll write about that later.

First, the scale. After my wake-up call on the scale a couple of weeks ago, I actually wasn't dreading today's weigh-in. Last Wednesday, I'd lost a few pounds but I still wasn't very hopeful because I still felt like my snacking wasn't under control.

Over the past year, I discovered that it really is true that eating sugar causes sugar cravings. I never really believed that--but I also never went very long without sugar, so I didn't really give it a chance. After becoming vegan, it was fairly easy to cut out sweets. I wasn't familiar with vegan desserts so I didn't really have a choice at first. It even got to the point where GRAPES were too sweet.

After not eating them for a while, I realized that I didn't crave them at ALL. I was around desserts without even thinking about them. Then, someone bought Jerry and I dessert at a vegan restaurant. It would have felt rude not to accept it. So, Jerry and I shared that dessert--and I just couldn't stop craving sweets.

I know that it takes 4-5 days before it gets easier. Getting through that first 4-5 days of cravings is SO hard though! That was my goal for this week--to get through that horrible cravings phase. And now I know that all it takes is one dessert to make me start craving more.

I actually made it through the whole week! And it went exactly as expected: 4 days of thinking there was no way I could do it, a day of major temptation, and then a couple of days of just enough strength to where it's not so hard to say no. And after that--the cravings are gone.

Anyway, the scale... 


After losing 3.2 pounds last week, I'm very happy to see a decent loss again this week. At 148.6, I'm down another 1.2 this week. It's been a very long time since I've seen two good losses in a row. 

Last week, I also wrote that I wanted to focus on sitting at the table for dinner every day. I actually did really well with that! I think there was only a day or two where I forgot about it, but I definitely made progress.

Also, I've been writing about how I've been snacking way too much, causing me to put on weight pretty quickly. I've been wanting to get that under control, but I just felt like I couldn't do it, no matter how badly I wanted to. Well, this week I managed to do it--a huge victory (I know, that sounds ridiculous). I have deliberately been eating breakfast, lunch, and dinner every day--I figured that I'll be less likely to snack if I'm not hungry. I also have been eating a larger dinner than usual (not huge, but just relatively larger).

And then, I haven't been snacking at all at night! There were a couple of nights were I had some grapefruit (an odd craving I've had lately) but other than that, I haven't been eating after dinner. I have a feeling if I keep this up, the weight will continue to come off (yet again).

So, that's my plan for the week... just continue what I've been doing. Eating regular meals, no snacking (or a minimal healthy snack) after dinner. I actually feel pretty confident going into this coming week!

Today also marks two years of being alcohol-free :)

February 14, 2023

Jerry Loses His Dad Bod: Week 5


What a week. Poor Jerry. (That face is saying how crappy he feels right now--he thinks he's getting a cold.)

A few years ago, Jerry was having issues with throwing up frequently--from five days a week to twice a day. There was nothing that really seemed to trigger if and when it would happen. He saw a few doctors about it and even had an endoscopy, but nobody could figure out what it was.

Thankfully, it gradually happened less and less frequently until we realized that he couldn't remember the last time he'd thrown up. It just stopped after that, and life went on as normal. (I think it had been happening for about nine? months.)

Warning: TMI about vomit. And out of nowhere, Jerry started throwing up again about a week ago. After reading more and more about it, we learned that he's not actually vomiting; it's technically regurgitation. It sits in the bottom of his esophagus until it's forcefully expelled, usually about 1-4 hours after eating. When regurgitating food from the esophagus, it hasn't entered the stomach yet, so there is no stomach acid. Essentially, whatever you swallowed comes back up looking and tasting the same as when you swallowed it. The doctors thought it was probably due to GERD (a common "answer"), but he doesn't have the usual GERD symptoms and the GERD medication didn't help.  End TMI.

I felt bad for Jerry all week because he just didn't want to eat--when you throw up so frequently, it naturally becomes something you want to avoid at all costs. We never got answers and when it stopped happening, we just forgot about it. But it's looking like we may need to seek answers again.

After hours and hours of googling, we have never been able to find a condition that matches his symptoms. It's frustrating, especially when the doctors can't give you answers. I remember the toll I felt emotionally when I was trying to get answers for my chronic pain and I felt like nobody believed me.

Anyway, Jerry didn't want to skip his weigh-in today, even though his week wasn't ideal, so I'll let him share in his words about the week.

[I assumed Jerry would write about all this that I just wrote! After I wrote my intro, I read his words (below) and he doesn't even mention it--he said he doesn't know what to say about it--but he doesn't mind talking or writing about it. So I'm leaving my intro as it was, but it's worth mentioning that Jerry left it out of what he had to say about the week not because he doesn't want people to know, but because what is there to say? We didn't do his body fat and waist measurements today--just forgot!]

Here's Jerry...



Well, 190.8. Can't be that disappointed. After all, a loss is a loss.

Down from 191.2 last week.

I would love to say that I was seven for seven in good days this week but that was simply not the case. Although I had a loss, I had one bad day. However, that day wasn't really all that bad. I had decided to stay home for the Super Bowl this year and watch it with the kids.

Katie made that "cheeze" dip again from the night before, for the kids and I to enjoy. And I decided to make some chili for dinner. Chili seems like a big game staple so I wanted to make it really good this year. I made some tofu crumbles and added them to a chili recipe I found online.

I had wanted to double it so I could have some leftovers. But, I think I doubled the recipe for the spices and tomatoes and quadrupled the bean content. I think I added seven cans total of three different kinds of beans. 

Needless to say... I'm a little bound up at the moment.

The fiber intake had to be through the roof and I just keep chugging water to try to get it through my system. I can't help but love beans. I've always loved beans, even when I was a kid. I'm always reminded of a little ditty I heard when I was a kid:

"Beans! Beans! The musical fruit;
The more you eat, the more you toot;
The more you toot, the better you feel;
So lift your leg and let 'em squeal!"

It's super catchy, I know. I hope that you remember this song and pass it on to the little ones.

Anyways, plans for this week include eating normally and maybe cut down on the beans a little. The kids and I are going to local pro wrestling show tomorrow and on Saturday we are continuing our tradition of seeing comic book movies together with the release of 'Ant-Man and the Wasp: Quantumania'. I'm super excited for this movie as it starts off the MCU's Phase 5 and will give Kang the Conqueror a more central role as the new super bad for the upcoming series of movies. Sorry, nerd moment.



I have to say, I'm really impressed that Jerry has stuck with this for five weeks. His progress has been very slow, but also very steady. I got more serious this week with adjusting my habits, and I think that helped both of us. I'm hoping it pays off for me on the scale tomorrow, but even if it doesn't, I feel much better after a great week!

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