April 19, 2021

Monday Madness

Today has been SO busy and it's gone by crazy fast! I'm not going to write a post tonight, so I'll just share a selfie of Jerry and me as we finally sit down at 10:00 pm.

Tomorrow is Transformation Tuesday, so PLEASE send me your transformation submissions as soon as you can--I think I only have one in my inbox right now. To submit a transformation (of anything!) just send a before photo and an after photo to me at: katie (at) runsforcookies (dot) com. Don't forget to include your name and a description of the transformation. I'm looking forward to seeing what you have!

April 18, 2021

Affirmators! Week 9: Clarity

[Affirmators! are cards with positive affirmations written on them. My friend John sent me a deck of them and I've been drawing one from the deck each Sunday. I hang it on my bathroom mirror to keep it in the front of my mind and try to work on that topic through the week. That's what this Affirmators! post series is about. The introspection on these weekly posts has gotten surprisingly deep!]

Last week, the affirmation was about "Letting Go"--not holding grudges or dwelling on bad things that happened. While I'm not one to hold grudges, I wrote about how I carry around guilt and/or regret over things I've done (or not done) in my life. It can be something very minor that I'm sure everyone else forgot about, but I just can't let it go. So, that's something I will always have to work on.

The card I randomly selected this week is:


Clarity

Stopping to listen to my inner self, I can easily separate my intuition from my mental chatter. The clarity of my intuition is a sweet, simple fruit that tastes familiar. And the mental chatter is a confusing, bitter rind that I shall peel off and chuck into the garbage (or compost heap, if your mental chatter happens to be organic).

Haha! I love the the compost heap comment. I'm not usually a fan of metaphors that seem out of place, but I really like this affirmation. This is one that I am actually really good at already.

I refer to my intuition as my "gut feeling", but I don't use that term lightly. When making important decisions, it's easy to overthink things. And sometimes I find myself doing that--going back and forth in my head over all the possibilities. When I tell the "mental chatter" to shut up for a second, I focus very hard on what answer gives me a sense of peace.

It's not always the answer I want or the answer that seems to make the most sense--but it's the answer that calms the pit of my stomach. "Peace" is the best word for that feeling. Once I feel peace with a decision, I trust it. It's been the most effective tool I've ever had when making tough decisions.

When Jerry has a decision to make, he even trusts my intuition enough that he'll ask me, "What's your gut telling you?" and he goes with it because he knows that it doesn't fail me. 

I've been racking my brain for about 20 minutes since I wrote that last sentence and I cannot come up with a good example! However, I wrote a post about "mother's intuition" when Noah had the biggest splinter EVER in his foot and we went to Urgent Care and THREE emergency rooms--the doctors kept brushing me off, telling me that it would surface on its own.

My gut feeling was telling me that it wasn't normal. And it turns out I was very right--the surgeon who finally removed it was shocked. I sent pictures to the other emergency rooms so they could see that not all moms are overreacting when listening to their intuition. If I'd convinced myself that the doctors know what they are talking about, Noah could have lost his foot or his leg! (Here is the post, if you missed it.)

I don't always listen to my gut feeling--sometimes I'm impulsive and I choose the answer that I WANT rather than the one that gives me peace. Occasionally, it's a good choice--but almost always, when I go against my intuition, I end up regretting it.

So, while this affirmation card is something that I already practice regularly, it's good to have a reminder. And the card is cute!

April 17, 2021

Book Review: 'The Evening and the Morning' by Ken Follett (and a giveaway)

I completely forgot that today is Saturday and I was supposed to make a heritage recipe to post tonight. I've been trying to stick to a blogging schedule because I like the routine. However, I got NO sleep last night (my forearm and hand were super painful and I finally gave up trying to sleep). I've been kind of in a fog all day and I totally forgot about cooking a heritage recipe. But anyway, I finished my April book pick for the Friends Read-athon that I am participating in, so I thought I'd give a quick review.

When I "review" a book, I don't like to post spoilers, and I don't necessarily like to post a lot of details about what the book is about (because you can read the book descriptions online for all of that), so this is going to be a brief summary of my thoughts about it.

The theme for April was, "Could I BE more excited?" (read in Chandler's voice from Friends). We were to pick a book that was highly anticipated.

I had been very excited to read a prequel to my all-time favorite book: 'The Pillars of the Earth', by Ken Follett. There are four books in the series--here they are in chronological order:

- 'The Evening and the Morning'  (around 1000 CE)
- 'The Pillars of the Earth'  (the mid-1100's CE)
- 'World Without End'  (the mid 1300's CE)
- 'A Column of Fire'  (the mid-1500's CE)

'The Evening and the Morning' was the most recent book that was written, so that is the book that I was looking forward to reading. Here is the description from the publisher (it REALLY doesn't do it justice, though):

"It is 997 CE, the end of the Dark Ages. England is facing attacks from the Welsh in the west and the Vikings in the east. Those in power bend justice according to their will, regardless of ordinary people and often in conflict with the king. Without a clear rule of law, chaos reigns.

In these turbulent times, three characters find their lives intertwined: A young boatbuilder's life is turned upside down when the only home he's ever known is raided by Vikings, forcing him and his family to move and start their lives anew in a small hamlet where he does not fit in. . . . A Norman noblewoman marries for love, following her husband across the sea to a new land. But the customs of her husband's homeland are shockingly different, and as she begins to realize that everyone around her is engaged in a constant, brutal battle for power, it becomes clear that a single misstep could be catastrophic. . . . A monk dreams of transforming his humble abbey into a center of learning that will be admired throughout Europe. And each in turn comes into dangerous conflict with a clever and ruthless bishop who will do anything to increase his wealth and power."

All three books are able to stand alone--you don't need to read them as a series. Each book is VERY long--between 900 and 1100 pages--so it's a time commitment. But they move relatively quickly. 'The Pillars of the Earth' was my favorite, but I have to say that if I was going to recommend one to someone who is interested in the series, I'd say to read 'The Evening and the Morning' first.

I say this because there isn't as much detail about things that many people may not find interesting--for example, in 'The Pillars of the Earth', a major part of the story is about a man who is building a cathedral. The book is very detailed about the specs of the cathedral and how it's put together. I can see why people would lose interest in that. (But don't let that stop you from reading it! If a book doesn't capture my attention quickly and hold it throughout, I'm done--I would rather quit reading and find a different book. And reading about the cathedral was surprisingly interesting to me, for some reason!))

'The Evening and the Morning' felt lighter. I was able to keep track of the characters easily and the story moved quickly. And if you read this one and enjoy it, I am sure you'll enjoy the others as well.

I think what I love so much about these books is the appalling injustice throughout. It's infuriating to read about the things that the characters get away with (laws and punishments were handled much differently back in the middle ages). When a book makes me get all wound up, it's a powerful book. I found myself telling Jerry every so often, "You won't believe this!" and then telling him what just happened in the story.

If you like books that bring out all of the emotions inside of you, this series will do it. It's the perfect combination of shock, suspense, fury, romance, humor, violence, drama, action, and education all in one book.

I write about these books as a set mainly because they are very similar. This is something that I noticed a lot of reviews criticized. It's almost like a cookie cutter plot (with the exception of 'A Column of Fire'--that was a bit different); the characters between books have the same basic personalities/agendas/love stories/etc. The details of the plot are different, but you could almost swap out the names from one book with those of another and they'd be the same characters.

Because of this, if you have read one of the books, the others are extremely predictable. You'll already know things like: who gets punished and who gets away with murder (literally); who wants the girl and who the girl is actually interested in; and things like that.

That didn't bother me at all, because I LOVED the other books so much that I don't mind the predictability. There is still so much going on in the plot that you don't know--it was suspenseful when it needed to be.

Sorry for the vague review of this book--but it would be impossible to write a basic plot summary because it's anything but basic. Final thoughts: I loved it. I highly recommend it for anyone who has read and enjoyed 'The Pillars of the Earth'. I also recommend it for anyone who is looking for a very emotional and gripping epic to read!

Like I did with last month's book, I'm going to hold a giveaway for a copy of 'The Evening and the Morning'... (this is not sponsored--I just loved the book and I want to share it!). This giveaway is for a Kindle copy of the book--you don't have to own a Kindle, but you do need to download the Kindle app in order to read it.

To enter, just fill out the form below and I'll use Random.org to select a winner. I'll email you to let you know you won, and I'll gift it to your email address. The book is here on Amazon, if you are looking to buy it (affiliate link).


April 16, 2021

Friday Night Photos

I thought it was odd that we didn't get a snow storm in March--we always have a March snow storm! I was so sure we were in the clear. And then yesterday, it started snowing on my way to an appointment. I am very relieved that it didn't last long and the snow melted as it hit the ground, but it was kind of crazy to have snow in mid-April.

Anyway, the appointment I was driving to? My COVID-19 vaccine! I got the first of two Moderna vaccines (I didn't choose which one--just took what they had.) I have to go back on May 12 to get my second one, and then two weeks after that, I'll be considered "fully vaccinated".


I have kind of a lot of pictures of Duck this week. He's just so funny! Eli was eating Ramen with chopsticks yesterday and Duck was super fascinated...


He managed to snatch one of the noodles and run away with it. 



Always up to no good! I heard a noise in the kitchen that sounded like dishes clanking together. I thought it was the dishwasher, but then I realized the dishwasher wasn't on. I went to investigate, and this is what I found...


(I had been putting away dishes earlier and he must have gone in there when I wasn't looking. Then I closed it without realizing he was there!)

Duck's been practicing his seal imitation and he's getting pretty good at it. We discussed that he needs to work on arching his head back a bit.



Duck is SO determined to be friends with Estelle. He tries to play with her but she's a brat and swats him away. A couple of days ago, she was sleeping on the couch and Duck went and laid down right next to her. She gave him the stink eye, but went back to sleep. Then Duck kept inching closer to her. Eventually, he stuck his whole arm out like he was putting his arm around her. He left it like that--I don't think she even noticed that he did it because he was very stealthy about it!



Duck and Chick looked so symmetrical that I had to get a picture. They've grown SO much this past year!



My parents were going to pick up Luke and Riley, so they brought over this stuffed animal zoo that I made for the kids to put their stuffed animals in. I guess they played with it like it was a jail! Haha.



I had been struggling to come up with a good solution to make cabinet doors for that cabinet I put together out of scrap wood. There are a lot of different techniques for butt joints (putting boards together perpendicular to each other)--but most require special tools or router bits or saw blades I don't have. And mitered corners aren't very strong unless you reinforce them.

A very common joint for cabinet doors is a half-lap (see top photo in the collage below). It allows for a large glue surface, making it very solid. However, I couldn't figure out an accurate way to do them without using special bits or blades. After digging on YouTube for a little bit, I found a tutorial for this jig to make them on a table saw. The jig only took about 5 minutes to make and then I was able to cut all 12 boards at both ends in less than 10 minutes. I had spent hours trying to do it in other ways! This was SO easy and I did it with just the table saw. 



After St. Patrick's Day, I looked for corned beef to go on sale, and it did--for 50% off. I bought a few of them to throw in the freezer, and then yesterday, I put one in the slow cooker. I made reuben sandwiches for dinner, and holy smokes, they were SO GOOD. I've always loved reubens.


And finally... Eli started baseball games this week. It makes for a very busy schedule, but I'm glad to see him play--last year, baseball was canceled. The whole team gets tested for COVID-19 every week and the kids don't go to the games on the bus together (they have to ride with parents individually). Instead of high-fives after the game, the kids on each team wave their hats to each other as a way of saying "good game". Eli is SO happy to be playing baseball again! Here is a picture of him playing catcher today. He's so grown up!

April 15, 2021

2 Kinds of People: Part 2

Jerry is off work today, so we're going through the 2 Kinds of People quiz book again. This book is so fun! Eli and I had fun looking through them today, too. (Here is Part 1, if you want to check that out first.) Okay, here goes...


Jerry: It's definitely got to be the one on the right. Back in the day, we just folded it over, but now we have chip clips so it's fresher.

Katie: Yeah, we're fancy now! I'm with you--the clips are better.



Jerry: I like the first one better. Who would like the second one?

Katie: Whoa whoa whoa... I think the question is: Are you good at taking care of plants? Or do you suck at taking care of plants?

Jerry: Oh--hahaha! I prefer A--the first one. Oh wait--is it asking the kind of person I am?

Katie: The book is LITERALLY CALLED "2 Kinds of People".

Jerry: I always end up being B--the second one. I can't take care of plants. 



Jerry: Oh, yeah, I am definitely the one on the right. How can you NOT name them? If you don't, you have to go back and open it up to find out what it is. It's a pain in the ass. Just rename it. How hard is it anyways? The computer asks you to name it when you save it. 

Katie: Yeah, I'm definitely that one, too. But keeping up with renaming photos is really hard. When I upload a bunch of them at once, I may not take the time to rename them.



Jerry: I definitely prefer you to be the first one.

Katie: Too bad for you, I can't bake! I think I prefer to make things from scratch, but they rarely turn out well. Even when I bake from a box, something isn't right. You're a from-scratch baker, though, when you do make something.

Jerry: Yeah, I liked baking those Christmas cookies.



Jerry: What the hell is that? A razor?

Katie: Nail clippers! And nail scissors. Which one?

Jerry: Oh, I thought it was hair clippers--"Do you want me to buzz it? Or just trim it a little?" I like nail clippers. I've never used nail scissors--ever.

Katie: Yeah, I like the clippers, too. I think they work better.



Jerry: It depends what it is. If it's squeeze mayo, then the picture on the left is fine. But if it's mayo from a jar, peanut butter, or jelly, then it's got to be spread around.

Katie: I have to spread it--really evenly, all the way from edge to edge. Except for mustard, though--I'm cool with just squeezing mustard all willy nilly.



Jerry: I prefer the first one, because I like riding escalators. But if we're racing, I'll take the stairs to try to beat you.

Katie: I would choose stairs every time. And why do you think you'd win against me on the stairs?!

Jerry: You would choose stairs every time just because you don't want to touch that hand rail on the escalator.

Katie: Also true.



Jerry: Yeah, you gotta get a snack! But you have to get actual snacks, you can't bring in Taco Bell or something. AND, you have to take the wrappers off before the movie starts.

Katie: Yeah, there is always that one person who waits until the movie starts and then they decide to unwrap everything as loudly as possible. I like getting popcorn at the movies now--but you're the one that got me started! When I was a kid, we were never allowed to get snacks at the theater--it's so expensive. The first time I remember getting popcorn at the movies was on a date with you.

Jerry: What?! You never got popcorn at the movies?

Katie: Maybe I did once or twice, but I don't remember it. When we first went to the movies together, I can still remember you buying snacks and giving me a feeling of total freedom--like, "I can buy whatever I want here!" Hahaha.

Jerry: That's so sad.




Jerry: It's gotta be the first one. I'm kind of a perfectionist on that--the one on the right looks like a lumpy ball of clay. 

Katie: I'm actually the one on the right, unless I'm making a project where the circle has to be perfect. That surprises me--I would think that I'd be on the left and you'd be on the right.

Jerry: No, it's got to look smooth.



Jerry: I'm totally the guy on the right. I don't NEED to be, but I am--nobody is going to check my ID, but I don't know. I just do it. It's the rules.

Katie: I'm totally the one on the left. Ain't nobody got time to scroll through all that.

Jerry: Most websites now just ask you, "Are you 18?" or "Are you 21?"

Katie: What kind of websites are you visiting?!



Fun! Neither of us were super passionate about any of these... but wait until we get to the toilet paper (over or under) diagram. When Jerry wants to get me all riled up, he knows he just has to turn the toilet paper around in the bathroom ;)

Anyway, here is the book (Amazon affiliate link) if you want to have a fun conversation starter with someone. Some of the diagrams have been hot topics of debate in my house!

April 14, 2021

COVID Diaries - School During COVID: A Teacher’s Perspective (guest post)

Last month, I asked if any "front line" workers would be interested in sharing their experience during the pandemic. I wanted to read about the experiences from doctors, nurses, teachers, physical/occupational therapists, mental care workers, stay-at-home moms, funeral directors, paramedics, people who had COVID-19 and were hospitalized, and other people whose lives have been turned upside-down during the pandemic.

After reading and sharing the results of the poll I'd posted, I was stunned at the reality of what some people are going through, and I wanted to hear all about it. I only heard from a couple of people, so I'm hoping that after reading this post, some of you may come out of lurking and be interested in sharing as well! I'd love to make this "COVID Diaries" a series on the blog.

I'm thrilled to share this post by a teacher who reads my blog. Here, Amy Burkitt shares her experience as a 7th and 9th grade teacher during the COVID-19 pandemic. If nothing else, this will give you a whole new level of respect for our amazing teachers!




“Pull your mask up!” “Pull your mask up!” “Pull your mask up!”—a phrase I never DREAMED I would be saying at school as a teacher, but here we are.

Let’s backtrack to the very beginning: on Friday, March 13, 2020, my fellow teachers and I were instructed to send home 2 weeks’ worth of take-home paper assignments with our students (because being a rural school district, internet access is sketchy in some areas so even though my classes are keyboarding on a computer keyboard, I had to send paper keyboards with typing assignments for practice).

Our Governor, Mike DeWine, announced a statewide school shutdown for Ohio at that time. Little did we know then with that first 2-week shutdown, that March 13 would be the LAST TIME we would see our 2019-2020 students in person for the school year☹. 

The school shutdown continued to be extended by weeks until eventually, it became summer break. During the shutdown, our district (on a volunteer basis) delivered meals to students and also had pickup locations. Having an elderly mother with various medical issues which made her at-risk, I did not participate in meal distribution, but am so thankful for my colleagues, administrators, kitchen staff and bus drivers who did. We are a southern Ohio rural school district, and we have kiddos who NEED those meals.

On the teaching side, we were not required to come in to school on a daily basis (Ohio ultimately went on a stay-at-home order); but we did have to provide weekly take-home packets for the remainder of the year, which were mailed home to students. Large tubs for each grade level were placed at our lobby doors for students to return their packets.

Was it the greatest system in the world? Nope, BUT these were unprecedented times… NONE OF US (not teachers, admin, support staff, students, parents, etc.) had ever experienced a global pandemic during our lifetimes, nor had we ever planned for accommodating “school” during one (again, I refer to the “never dreamed” part from my first paragraph).



As summer progressed and COVID-19 cases increased, we all wondered what would happen for the 2020-2021 school year? Would we continue the paper packets? Would we have in-person school? Would we go virtual? Dun, dun, DUNNNNNN…no one really knew for quite a while (at no one’s fault because there was no way to know), and the NOT KNOWING part was really hard on many of us teachers because we are usually a pretty structured/planner bunch. It was very much a “wait and see” situation in regards to COVID-19 cases and numbers throughout Ohio and the world.

As back-to-school time neared, our district released its start-up plan: the first two weeks would be “teachers-only” in order to train, prep, clean, etc. for having students; then we would begin with a hybrid schedule of…

Mondays: Teachers only for planning/virtual assignments/deep cleaning; 
Tuesdays + Wednesdays: in-person for students with last names A to L/virtual for others; 
Thursdays + Fridays: in-person for students with last names M to Z/virtual for others.
 
From there, our schedule would be dictated weekly based on our county’s color, which had four levels (yellow, orange, red, purple) on the COVID-19 state map released by Governor Dewine on Thursdays:

Yellow - full attendance all days
Orange - 50% attendance hybrid schedule
Red - 25% attendance hybrid schedule
Purple - fully virtual/stay-at-home.

I appreciated that we had a plan in place, but it was hard to look any further ahead than a week at a time because we were always waiting with bated breath to see what color the county was for planning the next week.

Jumping back to the two weeks of training at the start of the school year, this old-dog teacher on her 24th year had to learn many, many NEW TRICKS! First up: our junior high students were going to be provided individual Chromebooks for the 2020-2021 school year. At first, they were to use them at school only/leave them in charging carts at the end of the day, but then it was decided to allow them to take them home for use as well.

My classroom is a computer lab because I teach keyboarding so I moved all of the classroom computers across the hall to the storage room so students would have table space for their Chromebooks instead. This allowed for no sharing of keyboards, which is great germ-wise, but hard for this keyboard-lovin’ teacher’s heart because a real keyboard feels so different (and BETTER) from a Chromebook keyboard. 

I also opted to transfer all of my lessons to Google Classroom—this allows for online access at home AND eliminates paper/pencils (we were trying to eliminate shared supplies, areas being touched, etc.). 

Learning a new format for lessons was HARD at first, but with support from other colleagues, I got the hang of it and am a total Classroom/Drive enthusiast now. Being an electives teacher, I was also adding in some Social-Emotional Learning to my curricula for the year since we were concerned for our students’ emotional health during a scary time—things like stress management and weekly check-ins. 

The start of the 2020-2021 school year was DEFINITELY more stressful for me—it’s always somewhat stressful, but a global pandemic will up that to DEFCON 1. I am super grateful that our district acknowledged our needs and allowed for the 2 weeks of training and planning. Our beloved school nurse went over many, many new protocols; the main ones being added to our daily schedule were the following:
  • Take student temperatures at our classroom door before homeroom begins; 100.0 or higher = trip to COVID-19 care room for further evaluation
  • Breakfasts would be individual bags at carts in the hallway distributed by kitchen staff and eaten in homeroom
  • Wear masks at all times (all students and adults except when eating)
  • Social distance of at least 3+ feet in hallways and classrooms
  • Sanitize via wipes all student stations at the end of every class period each day
  • Stagger grade level dismissals so that alternating classes are in the hallways three minutes apart
  • Plexi-glass dividers at each work station/desk (I nicknamed them 'COVID cages' in my room, but they are NOT cages at all—I just liked the alliteration—see pic below)
  • Staggered lunches plus extra seating in the gymnasium
  • No more than four students in bathrooms at one time
  • Bottled water supplied all year (no water fountain use)
  • No homemade treats brought in (our teacher lunch bunch couldn’t eat together in the lounge either—not enough space for proper social distancing)


Bless our school nurse’s heart because she’s the sole nurse for the entire district. She has attendants/aides, but much of the return-to-school checks for students who had been quarantined or COVID-19-positive had to be completed by her alone.

My memory of the weeks is a little mottled, but we ended up on 'red' fairly quickly (red meant 25% attendance hybrid schedule). Our district realized that 25% was a struggle given bussing, lunches, etc. so we ended up staying at 50% hybrid when we were on orange OR red.

We completed some fully virtual weeks also as cases surged (like around Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year’s). Beginning on March 15, 2021 (nearly a full year to the day), we returned to a full attendance, five-day per week schedule for students. We remain masked, COVID-caged, staggered in the hallway, and constantly sanitized (both tabletops and ourselves), BUT we are HERE!


Honestly, I am so impressed with our students’ acceptance of the changes this year; they have really adjusted and adapted to a lot of unknowns amidst their own fears and worries. Some did well on fully virtual weeks, but some did not. It’s hard to be at home, yet make yourself do school work--I totally get that—I have a workout room in our basement, just down a few steps, but I struggle to go down there. 

Plus, virtual is simply not the same as being IN a room WITH the teacher AND your classmates right there during a lesson to help and answer questions—I know Zoom is great (and I’m thankful for it), but still: NOT THE SAME. Also, the hybrid schedule separated some kiddos from their buddies—that’s hard, too. COVID-19 literally took away socializing as they were accustomed; that’s especially tough on a teen/pre-teen. AND I sincerely don’t know exactly what my students look like this year! I mostly see them masked; occasionally, when they take down their masks to take a drink, I’m thinking in my head “WHOA! Braces? I never guessed!”

Personally, my husband tested positive for COVID-19 on New Year’s Eve (thanks, 2020); it remained mild (thankfully), and I never developed symptoms or tested positive, but had to quarantine and miss some school. I know that is not the case for many in the world—even with my hubby’s mild case, I was scared for him/us… it’s just so much unknown (UGH!).

My heart goes out to folks who have lost loved ones, to our health care workers who have fought endlessly against this virus, and to those who are still suffering from symptoms or hospitalized. I chose to be vaccinated via our health department’s drive-thru option when offered to our school district. I know this is a personal choice; I received the Pfizer shots and had no symptoms (other than some tenderness at the injection site). I also know this is not the case for everyone; just sharing my experience. 

So now, we’re in our final quarter of school—our high school is getting to have a prom this weekend (with lots of COVID rules and no after-prom event, but at least they’re having the pictures/dance). Graduation plans haven’t been announced yet, but I’m sure that’s coming soon.

My masked marauders (aka students) are finishing up our keyboarding lessons and recently took home some beautiful poetry projects; I’m looking ahead to my 25th year of teaching; and I saved all my holiday/themed face masks from this year JUST IN CASE ‘Rona rules are still hanging around next year…hope not, but we shall see.




Thank you so much for sharing this, Amy! I am in awe and admiration of how adaptive you've had to be over this past year.

If any of you are interested in sharing your experience with how the pandemic has has a big impact on your life, please just send me an email at: Katie (at) runsforcookies (dot) com. 

April 13, 2021

Transformation Tuesday #22

I feel like I was just writing last week's post yesterday--time has been flying by this year!

I have a fun personal transformation to share (well, it's actually Eli's). He had an orthodontist appointment today, and he was surprised (and thrilled) when they decided to remove his braces! This actually wasn't his first time with braces; he had them when he was three years old as well to correct a cross bite. His smile was adorable when he was a toddler, but I was concerned because he was choking on food frequently.

I had to perform the Heimlich maneuver more times than I can count. We took him to a pediatric dentist, who said that his molars weren't making contact and he wasn't able to chew his food well. He said he could correct it with braces for just a few months. Eli called them "bracelets" and he was SO excited about getting them after I showed him pictures of people with them. Unfortunately, he still remembers what we had for dinner that day because his mouth hurt so bad that he couldn't eat. He did like choosing new rubber band colors at his appointments and I always stopped to get him a Slurpee from 7-11 afterward.

Thankfully, the braces worked! Those were his baby teeth, and after they fell out, he had some crowding problems when the adult teeth came in. We saw the orthodontist a few years ago, who recommended an expander followed by braces. We paid the equivalent of a new car (not literally, but not too far off, either--braces are crazy expensive!) and now, Eli has a beautiful set of chompers.


This next transformation, I actually saw on Facebook--my friend Trish posted it and I asked her if I could share it here because I was stunned at how amazing it looked. Trish and her husband took on a weekend project--they stained, cut, and hung planks of wood on the wall to make a gorgeous little accent wall!




We have a super small pantry which makes it painful to access anything at the back and it gets messy so easily! Combine that with my obsession of The Home Edit, organizing company/show, and I was determined to make it prettier and more organized. We have plans to build a new, bigger pantry, but until then this will do!

- Sarah




I have disliked the way the stained wood door trim looked around our white six-panel doors since the day we moved in 15 years ago.  However, there are 13 doors (including all of the closets, etc.), and that project never seemed to make it to the top of the list.  I finally decided it was time a couple of weeks ago.  While I do most of the painting in our house, I had no desire to tackle this project and hired it out to a local painter.  I am so happy with the results, it really brightens up the whole house.

- Cheryl




Thank you so much for sharing the transformations!

Trish, the colors you picked for the wall could not be more perfect. It makes me want to do an accent wall in my house! It looks gorgeous.

Sarah, don't you just feel so much better when you organize something that stresses you out every time you use it? I especially love the clear containers you used for your grains. Cute!

Cheryl, isn't it crazy how something like changing the color of the trim can give your entire house a new feel? It looks so different--and fantastic! I don't blame you at all for hiring someone to do it--painting trim is so tedious.

As always, I love seeing the before and after photos, so PLEASE keep them coming! I can't keep posting unless you keep sharing :) So if you'd like to submit a transformation (of anything at all) just send me a before photo and an after photo by email to: katie (at) runsforcookies (dot) com. Be sure to include your name and a description of the transformation, and I'll post it in an upcoming Transformation Tuesday post.

April 12, 2021

A New Workshop Toy

With the weather being so nice lately, I've been working in the garage as often as I can. I open the all the doors and get lost in a project. Unfortunately, this hasn't been great for my hands, so I've been trying to rest them until I can't help but go to work on a project.

I saw Becky on Easter and she showed Jerry a massage technique that he can do for me. Becky worked as a massage therapist while going through nursing school, and then she worked as an RN until moving here from Minnesota. So she knows quite a bit about the muscles and what may be going on with my arm/hand. And she doesn't think that the problem is my carpal tunnel; she thinks it's something called lateral epicondylitis ("tennis elbow"). That's when the tendons that connect the forearm muscles to the elbow get inflamed.

I had tried telling the doctor that I felt like the pain was starting around my elbow area (I couldn't pinpoint it), but he didn't listen to me and he told me he was sure that it was carpal tunnel syndrome. Wearing the splint doesn't help much, and if it was my carpal tunnel, the splint should help with the symptoms.

Anyway, Becky said that she bet she could pinpoint exactly where my pain was coming from--and within about three seconds, she said, "Right here" as I gasped in pain while she pressed down. When she put pressure in that spot, my hand got numb and I felt the very familiar sharp, burning pain in my forearm. (It is possible that I have both tennis elbow and carpal tunnel syndrome--I have the symptoms for both--but the tennis elbow seems to be where most of the pain is originating.)

She showed Jerry what to do, pressing his thumbs gently but firmly above my wrists, and very slowly sliding them up my arm along the muscle. She said she could literally feel the inflammation with her thumbs. It was painful, but it also felt like it was doing some good.

She told me that I should ice it a few times a day, which sounded painful to me--usually cold makes my bones hurt!--but I tried it and I was surprised at how good it felt. I hope that I am finally on the mend. I know I should be resting it more, and I have been--painting is what hurts the most, but I've only been cutting boards with the table saw lately.

And speaking of cutting down boards... I'm SO EXCITED because I now have a Dewalt thickness planer! It's been on my wish list for about two years, and I regularly check Facebook Marketplace, but nobody seems to want to part with theirs. They are never listed on there (or if they are, the price is the same or more than they would be at the store). Receiving the planer was actually a surprise...

Yesterday, Shawn (my brother-in-law) came out from Illinois to pick up our zero-turn lawn mower. When we were up north last summer, Jerry and I told him that he could have it for his and Jeanie's property in the upper peninsula. We wanted to get it out of our garage because it's so big and our yard is definitely not big enough to require something like that (we sort of inherited it from a family friend). It was nice to cut grass with, but not worth the space it took up in the garage.

Anyway, Shawn talked about giving me a jointer (another tool I'd like someday) in exchange for the lawn mower. I told him not to worry about it, that we were happy to give him the lawn mower.

When he arrived yesterday, he brought me a "present" (something in a black garbage bag). I assumed it was the jointer, and I said, "Oh! The jointer?" And he just said to open it. I was shocked when I opened it and it was a Dewalt planer! I was thrilled. It's in great shape and I'm super excited to use it.

It's ironic that I got it right after I used up a lot of my scrap wood on my scrap wood cabinet project! Haha, but I do need a table for the planer itself, so I plan to just use the cabinet for that. (The top that's on the cabinet in the photo above is just there temporarily--I am going to cut the edges flush with the cabinet.)

If you have no idea what a planer is (I didn't until a couple of years ago when I started making things out of wood) it's a tool that you feed boards through to trim them to a particular thickness while giving them a very flat surface.

When building furniture, like the cabinet, the planer would have been super nice because the boards would fit together better without any gaps where the board wasn't perfectly flat. A lot of the scraps I used for the cabinet were far from perfect, but still useable. Now, I can run boards through the planer to trim them to a consistent thickness and to flatten them.

If you had told me four years ago that I would one day write a post about how excited I am to have a thickness planer, I would have laughed at you! ;)

I have a date with YouTube tonight to watch some videos about the planer. Nerd alert!

April 11, 2021

Affirmators! Week 8 : Letting Go

[Affirmators! are cards with positive affirmations written on them. My friend John sent me a deck of them and I've been drawing one from the deck each Sunday. I hang it on my bathroom mirror to keep it in the front of my mind and try to work on that topic through the week. That's what this Affirmators! post series is about.]

Last week, the card was "Love" and it gave examples of the many "splendors of love". I didn't understand how that really related to love, but from the examples on the card, it sounded like I was supposed to notice little things that bring up good feelings. Not necessary things that make me happy--but rather actions or circumstances that make me feel happy.

I liked writing about it, but I honestly didn't think about it the rest of the week. My days are mostly the same as far as actions that I do, so there isn't a lot to look for. However, writing about it last week and choosing three "splendors" was nice.

This week's affirmation is:

Letting Go

I don't dwell on bad things that happened. I let things go because I have enough heavy things to carry around... and also, grudges aren't a great look.

Fortunately, this one doesn't really speak to me in a big way. I'm not one to hold grudges if someone wrongs me in some way--if they apologize and acknowledge that they were in the wrong, I won't even think of it again. However, if someone betrays me in some way and doesn't acknowledge that it happened or that they were wrong, then I have a very hard time letting it go.

Something I always try to keep in mind when someone does or says something hurtful is to look at what their intentions were or might have been. I've done things with great intentions and it may have backfired for whatever reason--so I would hope that people would look at my intentions and forgive me. (It's hard to explain this without an example, and I can't think of a good example at the moment.)

I asked Jerry if he thinks I hold grudges and he said no, but that I have a hard time letting go of something that I regret doing or not doing. He used the example of my friend Sarah, who passed away from melanoma in 2014. I really regret not going to visit her. I went one time to the hospital to see her, but I really wish that I'd spent much more time with her, especially as she was dying.

I think about it often, even though there isn't anything I can do about it now. I did form a friendship with her mom, however, which has been nice. Also, it was because of that regret over Sarah that "I chose to be jerk #1" when my friend Spencer was dying of brain cancer--here is a post explaining that! It was also the reason that I chose to visit my Aunt Jo recently when she was dying. So I definitely learned from the regret over not seeing Sarah, but I still carry that guilt around

There are other things that I wish I'd done differently in my life and I would love to be able to "let go" but regret is something that is really hard to let go of. I think it's because you can't change it--what's done is done and no matter how much you wish for a do-over, you can't really get one.

I think this is something I could definitely try to work on--but like I wrote on the Affirmators! post about "Joy", it's like telling a pitcher to throw strikes. Of course I don't want to feel regret, but it's either something you feel or don't feel and it's hard to change it. I think that the most important thing is to learn from it and do things differently in similar situations (like I did with Sarah).

This kind of sounds like a downer of a post! Thankfully, I am not thinking of regrets right now--it usually happens when I'm feeling depressed. But the next time I start to think about something I regret, I'm going to try to think of a lesson that I learned or could learn from it. That's a good takeaway from this card!

April 10, 2021

RECIPE: Mushrooms Au Gratin


I did not make a heritage recipe this week, but I did make a dish from the same historical society cookbook. (The heritage recipes are recipes that have been handed down from previous generations.)

My mom asked me to make the mushrooms as a side dish for Easter. I'd had them before--they are SO good. Jerry and the boys don't like mushrooms, which is a bummer for me, because I love them. Anyway, I was happy to make this!

Here is a printer-friendly version!

Mushrooms Au Gratin

Ingredients:

1 lb. fresh mushrooms, sliced
2 Tbsp. butter
1/2 c. sour cream
1/4 tsp. salt
dash of pepper
2 Tbsp. flour
1/2 cup shredded Swiss cheese
1/2 c. chopped fresh parsley

Directions:

Preheat oven to 425 F.

Sauté mushrooms in butter until lightly browned; cover for 2 minutes (there will be liquid in the pan from the mushrooms). Blend sour cream, salt, pepper, and flour in a small bowl, then stir the mixture into the mushrooms. Continue stirring until the mixture begins to boil. (If it looks too thick, then add a little milk until it's a little creamier.)

Remove from heat; pour into a buttered pan. Sprinkle parsley and cheese on top. Bake at 425 F for 10 minutes until cheese is melted.

This is what it looks like before adding the cheese... (I used dried parsley and stirred it into the sauce before topping it with cheese). 

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